Hello beautiful soul! 🌼 My name is Luca, and I’m a 23-year-old girl from Hungary. I’m open to building a friend-ship with anyone that might vibe with me.

Let me tell you a little bit about myself - I’m ever changing, but here’s what I can tell you at this very moment.

I currently live in a 100-year-old house in a teeny-tiny village with three beautiful souls - @mahnqee, who is a beautiful human, Haku, who is a beautiful dog, and Tinta, who is an equally beautiful cat. I’m an online English tutor, and I really enjoy my job, as it lets me spread positivity and motivation, as well as -something I enjoy dearly- break stereotypes and illusions about learning and one’s abilities.

In my free time… Wait, all my time is my free time… In my time, what brings me joy is cooking and eating delicious vegan food, spending time with souls I connect with, being in nature, doing yoga, drawing, reading, writing (poetry and fiction), or watching something I whole-heartedly enjoy.

What I’m currently manifesting is seeing more of the World and getting to live in a warm climate with a community, a tribe, a family.

Feel free to message me if you would like to talk! 🌼

@wada
514d

Hi Luca, it’s nice know a such nice person like you, you have a nice vibe around, I really like it.

Let me introduce myself, I’m Wada, 30 years old, from Mexico and I love enjoy simple things, what else can tell you about me… Oh! I used to play bass on latin-rock bands.

So, you have a friend here, have a nice day :)

@threepeacesoul
creator
214d

Hey Wada :) Nice to meet you. Thank you for your kind words.

Do you consider yourself a minimalist? Or what do you mean by simple things? I definitely vibe with that though :)

I don’t think I have ever heard latin rock. I used to listen to a lot of rock music as a teen, but never that particular genre. Can you recommend me some songs? :)

@wada
414d

Do you consider yourself a minimalist?

I love all minimalist, Buddhist, Zen philosophy :) I try follow this

what do you mean by simple things?

What I mean is that I enjoy simple things like walking, drinking coffee, listening to a good song. Sorry I’m not good with English :)

[…] used to listen to a lot of rock music as a teen […]

Me too! but now my favorite genres are Progressive Jazz/Rock/Metal, something very specific (let me switch to Spanish) Me gusta escuchar los compases irregulares, sincopa y contratiempos for example Dream Theater - Scene Seven: I. The Dance of Eternity

Can you recommend me some songs?

Sure! :)

Santana - Oye Como Va (U.S.A)

Caifanes - Afuera (Mexico)

La Barranca - El Alacran (Mexico)

Soda Stereo - Prófugos (Argentina)

Los Fabulosos Cadillacs - Carmela (Argentina)

Los Amigos Invisibles - Mentiras (Venezuela)

Real de Catorce - Al Rojo de la Tarde (Mexico)

Aterciopelados - Bolero Falaz (Colombia)

Los Tres - La Torre de Babel (Chile)

Los Enanitos Verdes - Guitarras Blancas (Argentina)

Today there is not much Latin rock because in 2004 comes the boom of an Urban / Pop / Commercial / Disposable genre called “Reggaeton” that basically put it into hibernation. :(

@avalos
211d

¡Excelente música! Conozco casi todas esas bandas, puros clásicos del rock.

@threepeacesoul
creator
211d

Sorry for getting back to you so late! I wanted to take the time to listen to the songs you’ve sent me :) I like them, I can definitely see myself dancing around the house or cleaning with this music on - or playing it myself, although I don’t play any instruments. I used to play the recorder as a kid, and I have a ukulele but I cannot play it to save my life x)

I see what you mean by simple things, I agree with you completely! I actually wouldn’t want to be making a lot of money. Of course, if I won the lottery, I would spend it on the community I and @mahnqee@lemmy.ml are making, but I would probably have less luxuries in my life than I currently do.

@sia
112d

Tell me more about your teaching practice, please.

Do you have any insights how to maximise potential in learners who don’t adhere to your usual ‘formula’ of teaching?

I often found that I misjudged students and sometimes overeastimate their abilities or rather underestimate the topics’ difficulty as I’m used to it.

@threepeacesoul
creator
111d

Hey! Thanks for the interest :) To be frank, I accept students that are preparing for either a language exam (B2 or C1) or a school leaving exam (sorta like SATs or GCSE) in English - therefore my formula usually works. If one student lacks certain skills, I will make sure to have plenty of tasks focused on that skill. I have a “slot” in my lesson plans for exercises the student needs.

I often misjudge my students as well, especially in the beginning. One time, however, I had a student that wasn’t improving. At all. No mater what I did. She was also faking her homework, as it was very obviously written by someone else, not her. I confronted her about it - kindly, of course, I just want the best for my students, and she’s not gonna improve by having somebody else do her homework. Since then, she has moved somewhere else and didn’t want to continue the lessons online, which I wasn’t entirely mad about, lol. What would you do in such a situation?

@sia
211d

Thank you for your answer :)

What would you do in such a situation?

Can’t do much really, can you? The “problem” is that you can’t shove the knowledge into their heads and pin it there. They have to want to learn. You can’t force someone into their felicity, by all means of that word :D

@Kamui
112d

Hiya Luca,

You should post pics of those vegan foods (along with recipes)!

Glad to have you here c:

@threepeacesoul
creator
311d

Hey! :) Thanks so much, I’m happy to be here! I’ll see if there is a vegan cooking community here on Lemmy and if not, I’ll make one, as I wouldn’t want to spam the !vegan@lemmy.ml community with my everyday meals :)

@hueyn
415d

you’re brave. just walking in front of a 100-year-old house is enough to give me goosebumps. lol

@nutomic
admin
715d

Best dont go to any European city then lol.

@threepeacesoul
creator
414d

Haha yeah, so many houses here are even older than ours. Unfortunately, people don’t take good care of them and let them rot away, even though the newer houses are way worse most of the time. This house, as the walls are made of clay and hay, has crazy good insulation, if it weren’t for the windows that are also pretty old :)

@threepeacesoul
creator
314d

Haha, I see what you mean. :) These places have a vibe to them. But trust me, my house is probably not what you imagined when writing this comment. However, the outside bathroom does creep me out sometimes, as it used to be a stable back in the day, it just feels off, to be showering there some days.

@null_radix
114d

Hello,

I’m an online English tutor

I’m actually interested in learning Hungarian. Would you have any suggests on course or materials for learning Hungarian?

@threepeacesoul
creator
214d

Hi! What a difficult language you have chosen to learn :) Why did you choose it?

I don’t really have any materials for Hungarian as a Second Language. I know Duolingo has Hungarian, but I’ve tried it and it’s pretty bad, haha. There might be some Youtube videos for basic phrases, but the grammar itself is horrible, I can’t imagine learning it lol. Although it’s a beautiful language, I love reading in Hungarian, but I never really write in it, I prefer English for writing, it comes easier.

@Titilonic
115d

Hello Luca, it’s nice to meet you. You mentioned you’d like to “live in a warm climate”, does that imply that Hungary is also getting very cold or is that usual there?

@threepeacesoul
creator
314d

Hi! :) It’s all a matter of comparison. Hungary is actually getting milder in the past few years with Spring and Fall lasting longer, making it a cold, muddy, foggy place. When I was a child, we had colder Winters with lots of snow - now we get maybe two days of snow every year. The ideal climate for me is someplace where the temperature doesn’t really go below 10 degrees (celsius), so someplace naturally habitable without all these made-up concepts like heating, insulation, you know :) Thanks for your question!

@Titilonic
314d

Aw, it’s good that it’s getting warmer but I guess some things won’t change.

It’s getting tropical here (either too hot/cold and sudden spurts of rain) and I’m afraid that, as we move along into the future, the climate will keep getting wilder and, much like in the current Pandemic, we will see the “New Normal” term used more and more.

That warm place (>=10º) sounds great, so long as the maximum doesn’t accompany it, lest it becomes a desert (very hot days and cold nights).

Thank you for your answer, I hope you find your special place :)

@threepeacesoul
creator
214d

Hi! Nice to meet you, I checked your bio and you seem like a very cool person :) I don’t understand the technical side of FOSS to be honest, I’m here (and on Pixelfed) based on the ethical side of internet privacy. How are you doing?

Well that’s new!
Nobody’s ever said that to me.

It’s a pleasure to meet you too!
I’m doing okay. Rough start to the year but things are finally picking up.

I’m a vegetarian, though I skip milk for breakfast sometimes.

I like reading and writing too.
Do you have any blog or sites where you publish your writings?

@threepeacesoul
creator
114d

:) I’ve been vegetarian for about a year now, but now I’m doing the Veganuary challenge, and I think I’ll stay this way afterwards, too. How did you become vegetarian?

I used to put some of my poetry on Tumblr (I spent my teenage years on that site) but now I don’t really have an outlet. I might make one in the future :)

Oh!
Never heard of that. I had to look it up.
Well, I was always a vegetarian. I was born one and grew up as one.

Is your Tumblr still up? links pls!

If you wanna post your writings, you can have a look at WriteFreely and Plume.

@threepeacesoul
creator
111d

I have been thinking of going vegan regardless, but this challenge provides a lot of help and resources as well.

Yeah, my Tumblr is still up, although I seldom use it nowadays. My url is the same as my username here, so threepeacesoul.tumblr.com :)

Thank you for the recommendation, I will definitely check them out!

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Post what kind of ship you are planning to build and wait until somebody is willing to make it with you. If you know anyone around you, who might be interested in making a friendship, offer them builders or simply this site in general. Once you are done, you can choose to be friends on a friendship, or try to build another one with someone else. In any case, in my observation, it helps if you let each other know what you are looking for, so both of you will know what exactly you are creating.

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