• Average PFLP Enjoyer
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    222 years ago

    incel quasi-misogynist community who think the reason women hate them is some weird testosterone shit and not because they make them afraid. Maybe if they spent more time treating women as actual people instead of focusing on what they’re spunking on their sheets they might be happier in life

  • @Kirbywithwhip1987@lemmygrad.ml
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    What even is that for real? I’ve been seeing it everywhere.

    I eat nuts whenever they are available, but am not nowhere near close as much as chips, popcorn or sunflower seeds(semenchki).

    I eat them rarely anywhay.

    • @thetablesareorange@lemmygrad.ml
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      its started as Movember a way to raise money/awareness for prostate cancer by letting your moustache grow out during November. Neonazis then invented their own version where they refused to masturbate all November and call it nonutnovember. It was never clear what the point was but it was basically neonazis and 4chan shutins doing a self improvement cult around masturbation. Sort of a “Hitler helped me get off drugs” kind of thing. So now neonazis and right wingers and even just random serial masturbators like OP have begun abstaining from masturbation, porn, and some sex all together. However the main focus seems to be to stop masturbating in order gain the motivation to get a girlfriend. There is some pseudo science involving holding in your cum making you a better athlete. Muhammad ali practiced abstinence before a fight, in the movie Rocky the fighter abstains from sex. But it mostly seems to come from a strange practice involving twisting and tying a roman gladiators penis so he couldn’t ejaculate. So its basically white jesus hates sex, and roman gladiator penis magic

  • @hegginses@lemmygrad.ml
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    132 years ago

    If you mean watching porn then you shouldn’t do that at any time of the year. Masturbation though is entirely healthy and you should do that as much as you feel like.

    • @pancake
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      I don’t agree with that “as much as you feel like” part. Every habit can become unhealthy beyond a limit, and masturbation is no exception.

  • Comrade BenOP
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    52 years ago

    It’s the break from porn thing but if you’re having a hard time taking a break from porn you’re probably a dumbass

  • QueerCommie
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    42 years ago

    I have yet to post anything in the community known as nut during this month so, sure

  • A little rant incoming, since I never talked about it in years.

    Never cared for NNN. Nofap is basically physical celibacy with westoid incel flavour, an attempt at rebranding what used to be “brahmacharya” physical abstinence practice in Indian Vedas without the incel parts.

    I used to be in nofap community for many years, and it has been a good while since I left it behind. I will risk it a little here and see if I can bring in a good take here. Nofap community has a lot of self improvement advice like avoiding porn, eating healthy, exercising, taking cold showers, developing better habits, harnessing your sexual energy into becoming emotionally more healthy socially, athletic mindset and anecdotes and so on. (I consider SR to be helpful because I take cold/lukewarm showers in winters, and SR and keeping masturbation to a minimum keeps away brain fog zombie mode, cold/cough, and all those things. Correct me or pep talk because I never really talked about SR with anyone and most people about it are weird enough to avoid.)

    The bad part is majorly the “day counter” thing which makes it a rat race, and allows for devolvement into MGTOW shit. At one point, decade or so ago, when I had incel like mindset, I used to think MRA was somewhat okay. It took me a while to learn and improve and realise something else was going on. I never participated in there for some reason, just read like the rare lurker.

    Motivations for NNN and Nofap are also another bad thing in general. Most people only ever see it as a way to up their girlfriend game or whatever (the bigger problem is their social attitude and awkwardness) but for me it was a matter of learning from athlete mindset and becoming a healthier person.

    I still suffer from social awkwardness because introversion (INTJ-A) makes sure socialising saps my energy, and I have done a lot of shit to fight it off. There is significant success but maybe I am just a bit coyly and shy and nothing can be done about it. I am not going to become some party animal.

    /rant I hate writing embarrassing shit😂