Hi lemmy! So this is kind of controversial, but hear me out. Let me start off by saying I’ve been on a few reddit alternatives, as I’ve mentioned in different posts, and I’ve seen language that is very hateful. I was disgusted by the language, but after seeing it over and over again, I just got sad. These people only know fear and hatred. I’m not sure anyone’s shown them kindness.
Should we be kind to those that we disagree with or that use hateful speech?
Dehumanization is the problem, indeed. But having separate tribes is definitely not a problem. I think you’re overplaying how much dehumanization takes place: that is certainly a feature of privileged/dominant cultures to try and eradicate others, but i’ve never seen that as part of a counter culture. As much as we can make a liberal cis white man uncomfortable, or give a nazi a few punches in the face or joked about eradicating them, i believe most of us have some form of empathy preventing it from going too far. On the other hand, nazis and masculinists (among others) are very determined to genocide/sexocide people who don’t follow their rule. And it’s not just talked/joked, they did it throughout history, and they’re still doing it on the margins. Polarization is not a bad thing, kyriarchy is.
About a paralysis in politics, residing outside of USA i don’t exactly see this from here. It appears your politics are business as usual full of psychopaths running the show.