My experience with Lemmy feels like my experience with Linux. I’m a nerd at heart and have played with a thousand variants of Linux over the decades. But as much as Linux is sold as the next Windows/MacOS, it never gets to that level. Trying to get people to understand the quirks of Linux (and why they are “better”) has been an act in futility. Linux just isn’t user-friendly, no matter the variant.
I see so many posts of people trying to understand what Lemmy is, what an instance is, why usernames are not unique (unless you include the server name - like email), etc. I just see it all as a huge hurdle to overcoming Reddit.
I’d be thrilled to be wrong.
It doesn’t has to be “the new reddit”, IMO if it’s like linux I’ll be pleased. I don’t need 4K users daily posting niche memes of wich I can see like the top 20 as most. Also I don’t personally want a place full of stupid comments and agressions, or I’ll be in 4chan, not lemmy.
Lemmy has the potential to be a new platform by iteslf, an alternative for people that want things different, that want more engagement and thoughtful communities that last long and does not need to strangle the last cent out of the users pockets. And for people that does not want a social media platform, but a forum like exprecience.
Also, look at the current wave on big tech platforms, twitter has gone to garbage, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, Reddit… I preffer not to depend on this kind of services, I just want to engage with real people in a more mature way, and Lemmy allows me to have the best of all parts without the bad.
That’s me I guess.