With UlyssesT out there touching grass, I haven’t seen this thread in a while. What in the past do you NOT miss? It could be very personal or just something everyone experienced but doesn’t anymore.

For me, I am so fucking happy the food scene in burgerland has changed since the 2000s. People seem to enjoy more well-seasoned foods and healthier options seem to outstrip the unhealthy slop I remember in the 2000s. Even my yee-yee ahh Ohio suburb has changed somewhat noticeably to support fresh ingredients. Less WASPslop is always good.

How about y’all?

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    proprietary charging cables

    2000s beauty standards

    silver plastic home electronics

    nimh and nicad batteries in everything that lasted all of 5 minutes

    paper encyclopedias were kinda before my time but also seemed pretty bad

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    Random homophobia in movies and tv shows back in the day for no reason whatsoever.

    I was watching a Police Academy clip the other day, and while the ‘Blue Oyster’ bit from those flicks was always notorious, it’s probably one of the only bits people remember from them. What really hit me was this scene (paraphrased because I don’t want to go watch PA clips again just to get the exact dialogue):

    Hightower waking up Mahoney in the middle of the night

    Hightower:“I’m nervous about my driving exam, because I don’t know how to drive.”

    Mahoney:“I can teach you, when is your exam?”

    HT: “6 AM.”

    M:“Tomorrow!?”

    HT:“Can you help me?”

    Mahoney: “Yeah sure, why not? Sleep is for F**s anyway”

    This of course is the brilliant, biting humour that the Rogansphere complains got taken away by Woke.

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    Disposable cameras. The wastefulness of an object made to be thrown away aside, they took bad pictures, and if you wanted to take more than 10-15 pictures of your trip you’d have to bring a bunch of the things with you. Price wise an inexpensive traditional camera and half a dozen rolls of film were about the same price of five of the things IIRC.

    Smart phone UI design still sucks but its so much better than it was in the early-mid 2010s

    References to sexual abuse under the spoiler

    The people who say shit like “Oh dating sucks now, you can’t even flirt anymore” drive me up a fucking wall. Its not that people are prudes now, people don’t put up with sexual harassment like they used to, and that’s a good thing. The discussion around consent seems to be a lot better than it was when I was younger. There have also been improvements in sex ed and survivor resources in the past decade.

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      I worked in a camera/photolab once upon a time. I hated how wasteful those cameras were. There was ostensibly a recycling program from both Kodak and Fujifilm, but frankly the cameras were so damaged by the opening process that there was no point.

      We had to put the camera in a darkbox, and actually crack open the plastic shell and retract the film inside its canister (it was plain old 35mm) by touch. Good luck trying to open the shell by the plastic clips (that theoretically made it easier) by relying on touch alone.

      APS film cameras were even worse though. They were supposed to have this fancy autowinder system, but it frequently failed and jammed on cheaper camera models. 35mm may have been more finicky to load and unload for the average non-photographer but at least we could easily rescue film from 35mm cameras in the darkbox and keep the camera intact.

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      Ah,disposable cameras. They also had the benefit of not needing film replacement. You can burn the film if you are not prepared. But Yea those were somewhat wasteful. They had some waterproof models too

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    The word “epic” being used colloquially, and tangentially related to that, the le bacon craze.

    Open horniness online, I’m glad that’s more frowned upon these days, especially the kind of “I can’t wait for [teenage celebrity] to turn 18” creepiness that was generally accepted in the 2000s yea

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      oh god, le manly bacon bearded redditor was cringy and i’m glad it ended

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    The stigma around mental illness and neurodiversity. It’s not like we’re ableism-free, far from it, but being able to just say “I suffer from depression”, or “I’m going to therapy” and no one really caring, or, in the best scenario, being understanding and supportive, has made things so much easier.

    Not to mention that I wouldn’t be able to understand a lot of my life and work on a lot of self-hate and preconceived ideas about myself without the lens of AuDHD giving me a bit of an out for me to get care.

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    Does UlyssesT himself count?

    On a more serious note, I’m glad the whole valorization of “nerd culture” seems to be dying/dead. There was a recent cultural shift of making “nerdy” shit “cool” and it got really obnoxious really fast, especially since a lot of fandoms still seemed to keep this victimhood mentality even as their interests entered the mainstream more and more. Obviously a lot of nerdy stuff is still popular, but I get the sense that a lot of people now consider the construction of whole sub-cultures around it is a bit cringe, it seems pretty normal now to just accept that most humans have a few niche interests and being into Star Trek or Steam Trains or Anime doesn’t mean you have to do this performance of being a social pariah and you can just, like, be a normal person who also likes those things.

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      On a more serious note, I’m glad the whole valorization of “nerd culture” seems to be dying/dead. There was a recent cultural shift of making “nerdy” shit “cool” and it got really obnoxious really fast, especially since a lot of fandoms still seemed to keep this victimhood mentality even as their interests entered the mainstream more and more.

      God I hate this one. In reality the only thing that was valorized was being a fucking treatler.

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      I always saw that as geek culture. Geeks consume and obsess over things, nerds are people who like do maths puzzles in their spare time.

      Geek culture got celebrated for a while, but at least in my neck of the woods “I’m gonna stay in this weekend and research the history of the lathe” never became anything other than shunned and mocked.

      • at least in my neck of the woods “I’m gonna stay in this weekend and research the history of the lathe” never became anything other than shunned and mocked.

        It might be because I surround myself with autistic people but if I said that most people around me would be like “Hell yeah”

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    Smoking. I love my friends and family, but I hated how much they fucking reeked of cigarettes. I also hated when the died of illnesses that were obviously caused or exacerbated by their smoking. Most of the survivors have quit, and I really appreciate them taking the effort.

    Also not nostalgic for old cars. I totally understand people vibing with them and thinking they’re cool, but I gotta be honest about how fucking shitty the ride feels, how uncomfortable the seats are, and how much anxiety I’m feeling about the painful death I’m going to experience if we get into a minor crash.

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        Part of me wants to take the old body and just modernise everything about how it drives, safety etc. But also I can’t afford two cars (or even really one car).

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          i’d love to see an electric trabant with massive speakers built into it so it still sounds the same as the old tiny 2-stroke engines (never accept a 4-stroke trabant, those are abomination).

          it wouldnt have that 2-stroke fuel smell, but you cant have everything.

        • Same, I’m sure someone with a lot of time on their hands has put an old body on a newer frame and made a relatively safe car that doesn’t look like a boring crossover. But I have neither the time nor the money to do that.

          I just want to drive an old Fiat Topolino, a Citroen 2CV, or a Subaru 360 down a sunny coastal road without fearing for my life. I love tiny, quirky cars.

          • It’s possible but remarkably difficult, modern cars are massive, partly due to modern safety features, partly due to modern market desires

            There was a YouTube channel trying to do this before they got fucked by copyright, they were trying to put a 1960s Mustang body on a modern Mustang fram, and it essentially involved custom building everything to fit

            • Yeah that sounds about right. My biggest issue is that because of advancements in safety standards and the tendency of the profit rate to fall, there’s this convergent evolution so that every car looks the same, and they all look a bit lifeless and uninspired. I like cars that look a bit different, that are a bit impractical, that look fun. But that’s not so much a thing nowadays.

              Also, i hate big cars. I just want a tiny car for me, someone else and groceries.

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            My vote goes out to the Renault 5 because Sankara ordered all the high-ranking government officials in Burkina Faso to switch their Mercedes limos out for them, given that it was the cheapest new car available in the country at that time.

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        Why?

        EDIT: You post in c/games lmao if you play video games as an adult you would absolutely end up on the wrong end of this

        EDIT 2: Do you not care that this would disproportionately hurt neurodiverse people, or do you consider that a bonus?

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          It’s really tiring to see people going to huge efforts to analyse media that’s intended for young children and complain about tropes and narrative devices that are there because it’s media for children.

          I get that it’s sort of an elitist sentiment, but media written for or targeted at adults is usually better, or at least freer to explore the sorts of things these people claim they want to see, and they would almost certainly have a better time if they just stopped watching children’s media.

          For example, Harry Potter / Disney fanatics in their late 20s early 30s. Read another book, I’m begging you.

          lmao if you play video games as an adult you would absolutely end up on the wrong end of this

          Plenty of video games written for exclusively adults (and plenty that can’t legally be sold to children).

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    Newgrounds and flash animation in general.

    Shock humour.

    The huge amount of way more intense homophobia and sexism.

    Sitcoms, fuck “Two and a Half Men”.

    Many more that I’m too sleepy to think about

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      Newgrounds and flash animation in general.

      Shock humour.

      Also the intersection of these two, these flash games with jumpscares that were all the rage for a while there in the mid 2000’s. Fucking hated that shit and it got to the point that I started telling people I had a heart condition to guilt trip them into not doing that kind of shit to me (I don’t, but I detest jumpscares with a passion)

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      Sitcoms, fuck “Two and a Half Men”.

      I feel like sitcoms are still around - Abbott Elementary is pretty popular right now. Stuff like bazinga and Schitt’s Creek were also huge.

      I would say “maybe they’re marginally better”, but I’m not really into the genre to speak on it

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      I can’t feel nostalgic for Newgrounds at all despite using it occasionally as a teenager. Most of the content was garbage and there was a horrible site culture of racism, sexism, homophobia, ableism, etc. That site always sucked.

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    Since you brought it up, I don’t miss UlyssesT. dude was an asshole debate pervert, was on the other end of all of the worst interactions I ever had on here, and never knew anything about the things he was malding about to boot. It’s a lot nicer now that he’s gone.

    Fake plants, I feel like I’ve been seeing less and less of them over the years and I hope that plastic garbage stays gone forever

    AngularJS

    People having their ringers on in public

    Carpeted flooring, especially high-pile carpets

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      I miss UT, but mostly because he was the only one close enough to the burning centre of the tech bro cult to actually be aware of the same things as me. Ah well at least everyone can mock Big Yud with me now.

      I really need to write my “people’s history of transhumanism” one day

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        Really? Cause he only ever talked about tech and tech culture like he’d heard about it in passing from an old hippie that was actively tripping on shrooms, his tech bro cult rants were always so off-the-mark they struck me as pure hallucination

        • They seemed very specific to a certain part of silicon valley, all I can say is that if you’ve encountered that very niche set of ideas within the niche of silicon valley culture itself, it made some sense.

          But I wasn’t really around for peak Ulysses T posting anyways. I only started posting regularly a few months ago. So maybe I’m wrong.

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          I had issues with the specifics but he definitely had close contact with Big Yud and the proto rationalist set, as well as 90s-early 2000s transhumanist silicon valley types.

          If you were more closely aligned with the softer Doctorow style tech types it might come off as strange vibes though.

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        I long for the day I can put “javascript” in one of these lists generically. Javascript is bourgeois decadence and it isn’t even good

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          The web’s usability peaked in like 2005, where there was enough javascript to run gmail, but anything more complicated lived in a little flash player box, and I had click-to-activate enabled so ads and tracking scripts couldn’t do anything.

          I hope they keep adding things like the <details> element until websites can do all the website things without javascript, and we somehow get back to a flash/applet style box for complex stuff (with a more reasonable security model, hell it’s fine if javascript is what lives in the box).

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            I really wonder if people who hate on JS / Web Frameworks have made UI’s in another language/toolkit. Everything but QT is awful compared to web.

            Also I just contend that people have never really worked with a well designed system because most shit out there is either dead simple, or quickly became a mess because the devs and managers were out of their element. I can sympathize. I’m currently bashing my head against the wall trying to get PMs to understand fairly difficult concepts. I had a meeting today where it was me, 2 UX designers, and 2 PMs on a call, and the PMs literally couldn’t functionally understand from either perspective the reason the propsed processes were needed.

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              My problem isn’t with javascript as a UI framework, it’s what I use too. Everything else is five independent platforms each with 3+ half implemented ways to do things, all of which have been left to wither on the vine as all the tech companies give up and use the web instead. The DOM is the best application tool remaining.

              My problem is that javascript is both the tool to make basic enhancements to documents, like collapsible menus or form submissions, and the tool to create whole applications. The former needs it to run by default on every page, but the latter means that that it has the potential to harvest a zillion kinds of data, perform far more computation than is needed to display a webpage, and make cheap computers and poor connections unusable.

              And it doesn’t matter that these problems are avoidable if companies get their shit together, because I’m not writing the code for every page I visit.

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    Being an absolute asshole online. Sure places like reddit and 4chan still exist but it feels like in general the internet has gotten, nicer? Like the other day I was playing an online game in someone in chat was popping off anti-immigrant shit and praising Trump and the entire guild chat turned on them shitting on them and telling other players how to add them to your blocklist. The general edginess I used to see in the aughts online feels like it’s dissolved into people being nicer, maybe it has something to do with irl being more ruthless than ever.

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      I think some of that is because there are more older (by which I mean like 30+ or even 20+) people online. You’ll still occasionally run across the YoU WoUlDn’T LaSt In A MW2 LoBbY types, and all I can think of is “Damn, sorry you failed to grow up and the rest of the world moved on”. Some of us didn’t like screaming slurs into a headset even back then.

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        YoU WoUlDn’T LaSt In A MW2 LoBbY

        back button -> dpad over the gamertag -> a button -> mute player -> back button

        everyone i used to play with could do it in like 2 seconds lmao

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        Even the people that do banter that can be seen as rude or toxic “go fuck yourself/mom/dad/goat” etc stuff can surprise you when somebody pops off a N word or something and then it’s all “fuck off racist pos”

        It’s a nice surprise to find.