Hi my fellow Lemmy users! It’s been a while since I used this platform and boy did I actually miss you all ❤️

It’s just that I’ve been more so focusing on myself in my career and in my own education. So I graduated back in June and man it sure does feel like a lifetime ago already. Settled in a good paying job and still trying to improve myself wherever I can.

This brings us to the question that I wanted to ask everyone here. As I’ve been very focused on academics and career stuff I never had the opportunity to date and I’ve been rejected very frequently (which is to be expected as a man tbh). I haven’t been able to lose weight and that I’m 25 years old.

I know that’s still pretty young but I still feel so behind on dating tbh. Is it still too late for me to find someone I want to be with after I’ve lost weight? Does losing weight help for men as it does for women? I’ve been trying to join meetups, volunteering (just to meet new people tbh) and really put myself out there. It’s just idk like all my friends are committed and I’m just floating around life whilst focusing on my career.

  • @DrQuint@lemm.ee
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    5 months ago

    I am 25

    Lmao. That’s literally the age humans stop maturing.

    You’re in your theoretical prime.

    Now’s the time to make it happen if anything. You can be and do whatever you make of yourself.

    • @TheAnonymouseJoker
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      Prefrontal cortex stops developing around 27, not 25. OP is even younger to be too late, and even post 27, he has atleast 10 years before he loses his prime age.