To be fair I still do these things but only when I’m alone.

Personally I love finding big puddles and then dig drains with a stick or my heel and watch the water flow.

Also love to throw a piece of wood into water and then toss stones high up in the air and try hit it imagining it’s a warship I’m trying to bomb.

Then also without going into details there are some pieces of clothing I would like to wear but don’t because they’re considered femine or gay.

  • miss_brainfart
    2·
    10 months ago

    More men should just wear whatever, tshirt and jeans is really getting boring, isn’t it.

    • cubedsteaks@lemmy.today
      2·
      10 months ago

      Yes! I use to be a shirt and jeans person. Then one day I realized jeans made of denim aren’t all that comfy. And I could dress up more! And that actually there’s all kinds of stuff out there I can look good in.

      • miss_brainfart
        2·
        10 months ago

        I just need some of that confidence of yours, though. Maybe I’ll do a full dress-up on halloween first, so people don’t ask too much, because my god, do I not have the nerve for questions.

          • miss_brainfart
            2·
            10 months ago

            Will definitely need someone to help with makeup, because if I do it, I’ll go all out.

            On that note, my inner excitement when thinking about going full femme speaks volumes

            • cubedsteaks@lemmy.today
              2·
              10 months ago

              I didn’t really learn make up until late in life, like my late 20’s. But I only learned after watching several youtube videos and instagram too. I’d totally recommend just watching people put on make up and imitating what they do. It really is just painting your face by tracing the outlines of your bone structure.

              I’m always excited to be hyper femme lol

              • miss_brainfart
                2·
                10 months ago

                I just want to thank you real quick for being so encouraging, it really means a lot to me.

                Talking about it like it’s the most normal thing in the world is still something I have trouble with, there’s probably lots of internalized stereotypes going around that head of mine.

                So thank you, really. It helps a lot.

                • cubedsteaks@lemmy.today
                  2·
                  10 months ago

                  No problem! I guess I have kind of ulterior motive though. I just like when guys are more interested in being femme in general. So of course I want to encourage it to be more normal.

                  • miss_brainfart
                    2·
                    10 months ago

                    You should. No reason to call it an ulteriour motive when people have expressed the interest themselves already

                    Sometimes they just need a little nudge. Or a big one. Either way, keep doing what you do, you’re awesome