• ComradeLuz [none/use name]@hexbear.netOP
          1·
          1 year ago

          I was not stating agreement. I was just mentioning that is another reason that I have been given. But, everyone has the right to find annoying whatever they want though 🤣

        • Addfwyn@lemmygrad.ml
          33·
          1 year ago

          Because they are, and people can find different things annoying? I love snakes, but if somebody dislikes snakes and chooses not to keep them as a pet (most people) I am not going to think negatively of them as long as they aren’t going out of their way to harm snakes.

          It’s fairly bizarre to think everyone has to find the same things annoying as you.

            • Addfwyn@lemmygrad.ml
              42·
              1 year ago

              I will assume you are legitimately asking in good faith as this is a fairly common bingo we hear a lot.

              Someone’s age and the way they act is not the same as their sexuality. That should go without saying, but you would be surprised.

              People tend to find children annoying because of…the behaviour of children, unsurprisingly. Whether that is the crying, the demand for attention, the manipulation, the risk of damage (to themselves, me or my possessions, or others). Those are regardless of race, gender, sexuality, etc.

              Doesn’t mean I actively wish ill on them; quite the contrary, I respect them as much as I would the life and livelihood of any other human. I just made the choice to have nothing to do with them. My partner is the same, so it’s never been a particularly big issue for us. We just don’t go to places where there are likely to be kids, and everyone is happy. Do I expect that in some public places there will probably be children sometimes? If it’s an appropriate venue, yeah I just have to deal with it.