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Cake day: May 23rd, 2024

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  • Be honest with her and expose things clearly, tactfully, and not bluntly. Tell her that you find her amazing but that that the only thing you can offer right now is friendship.

    As for the age: (n/2)+7 is a suggestion, not a law. Take things on a case to case basis and a day at a time. I’m gonna turn 40 in march and would need a great amount of rapport with someone younger than 30 or older than 45 to be interested and have the energy to make it work on a long term.












  • this. of course you have to be polite and cooperative in work related issues, but the rest are your personal relationships. that’s up to you to decide who goes beyond being a colleague and gets to be an acquaintance or friend. if you want to decompress on your breaks, go for a walk or pick something to do that tells other people you’re having time for yourself, such as reading a book, listening to music or taking a nap.