NB: Initially I was asking imperial core comrades due to some potential common experiences that I was looking for but it was suggested that I widen the scope and I agree.

Coming from England where 90% of our culture is consumerism or lifted from America (so more consumerism) I have no affinity for what “makes me english”.

The only real culture or tradition in the England is bourgeois propaganda/bread and circuses nonsense like the opening of parliament or the queen’s platty joobs or bank holidays (lol).

As the proletariat/lumpen there is no culture outside of football and consumerism.

So to that end, what exactly makes one English? Chauvinism and imperialism? Two things that only really benefit the aristocracy.

We aren’t even “english”. We are mostly Anglo saxon but most of us have parts gaelic, celtic, norse, germanic etc history. We aren’t Anglo saxons really, we are just mongrels with white skin and no culture so I don’t get what the fucking nationalists are so proud of. Lol our fucking royal family is less Anglo than we are!!

I have no cultural ties to England, this country has only hurt me and millions of others. We have no beautiful cultural events, music, art etc. Its just homogenised capitalist culture shared with most of the imperial core. The same can be found in every country apart from Brit pop. Get in what a claim to fame.

I speak from an English perspective as scotland, Ireland and Wales DO have culture. But in England we’ve lost any we might have had. I even have Irish mostly and some Welsh and Scottish in me but I’ve never gotten to embrace or experience those cultures, it’s stomped out of you and erased through engloid chauvinism growing up.

As a country we’ve became a shell, white people existing to exist, no love or respect for our history because we have none. Its just rich people fighting other rich.

People might say knights and Kings etc but how is that my history? It’s the history of the aristocracy battling for their wants. As a “serf” we’ve just existed. They try to teach us English history in school and its just slaughter and exploitation. There’s nothing good. It’s all just murder and death and it’s not “we need to be better than our history”, it’s “this history allowed us to be better than everyone else” and that makes me sick.

So with this in mind, why would I care if another country took over? Say china came and ripped England from the royals grip, why would I worry provided I trusted them to look after the citizens better than our own government?

My allegiance isn’t to my country or some nostalgic memory of history, its to human beings. To the workers of this world and to that end what do I care of national identity and my non existent culture?

It’s struck me as a thought, does this exemplify why leftist or more accurately communist thought is such a threat to governments. Its not constrained by national pride or identity so those mechanisms and means of control fail right?

The only reason I see anyone for having any loyalty to England is because we are trapped here, and as traumatised workers without an escape we are doomed to just scrape some existence out of this wretched nation, living in fear that if we don’t swear loyalty to our flag we will die in hunger and pain.

I dunno I’m just sundowning I guess. Depressed and chatting shit.

Edit: I think I just need a hug lol 🤣

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    So given the following:

    • The Beaver Wars, The Northwest Indian War, Tecumseh’s War, the Trail of Tears, The Sioux Wars, the Apache Wars, and everything in between.
    • The extermination of Native American cultures through Residential Schools, land grabs on Reservation land, Forced Sterilization, and Neglect leading to thousands of preventable deaths.
    • Chattel Slavery and the creation of modern racism to support the social structure of slavery.
    • Racist policies (like redlining) that have always kept People of Color in not only physical segregation, but also in servile roles where even those with status could have it taken from them within hours of a change in sentiment.
    • The burning/razing of black neighborhoods and near-random lynchings of black people.
    • The oppression against Chinese migrants, particularly as physical laborers.
    • The continued use of Latino immigrants for underpaid migrant contract work.
    • The Conquests of Hawai’i, Puerto Rico, and the Phillipines and the suppression of their self determination as Nations.
    • The Construction of the Panama Canal, during which 200 people died per month.
    • The Monroe Doctrine and the continued policy of suppressing Latin Americans acting in their own interests, including the assassination of Salvadore Allende and the Bay of Pigs invasion.
    • The assassinations of American Marxists, and mass murders committed by detective agencies against labor organizers.
    • The police suppression of lgbt culture and the current reaction of calling lgbt people “groomers”.
    • The methodical dismantling of American labor movements and their integration into liberal power structures, which continues to this day.

    I cannot in good conscience identify with anything American. The various peoples manipulated into coming here through imperialist wars, plunder, and imbalance of trade might call themselves Americans, but their freedom would be better won through the dismantling of the machine that created the conditions of their oppression. People are not citizens of a nation state before they are human beings. Their participation in the project is an illusion designed to exploit them. Even capitalist realist art is carefully censored to redirect anger from capital in order to manufacture consent for the hegemony of white men to continue on as the owning class of the West. Jeff Bezos is America, Bill Gates is America, Nancy Pelosi is America, and Donald Trump is America. And the mobs of reactionaries they recruit to bomb, burn, lynch, rape, and acculturate for their ‘values’ are America.

    [Insert John Brown quote here.]

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      America, not to be outdone by the English in cruelty went keen.

      You’ve put it so well, articulation = max.

      I have nothing of substance to add.

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        Afterward I remembered the US is the first and only country to use atomic weapons against other people.

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          Yeah 😔 if the bombings and their “necessity” is ever a topic of conversation, I take to describing the effects in stark detail. So many people who want to justify the bombs don’t even know what they did to people.

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    New Afrikan as we created our own culture out of almost nothing

    Too bad it’s constantly being stolen though

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    Many European nations did have a vibrant and beautiful culture before capitalism destroyed it all. I’m reading the Count of Monte Cristo right now and Dumas’ description of the Roman carnival sounds so fun and jubilant, with so many unique traditions such dressing up in costume, horse races, the lighting of candles representing life and death, etc.

    Of course, nowadays? Very little to be proud of. But I think to say there’s not a history of culture to look back on and draw from once the revolution has succeeded is misguided.

    (this isnt patsoc btw)

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    German here. People here really love to point out that we have a democracy but it’s just for show.

    The greens just agreed to build more coal plants and close our last nuclear ones and together with the “workers” party they up our military spending and encourage more wars. Did I also mention that we basically single-handedly stop the entire EU from advancing their climate goals?

    There is nothing to be prouud of here, but everyone loves it as all people I know embraced neoliberalism.

    Some even say it out loud no joke: “I don’t care what happens to people in 3rd world countries as long as the government at least keeps me happy.”

    I don’t identify with any of this, I guess at least we fund people who want to study with affordable and really easy to pay off loans (for me going to college now I don’t even have to pay it back).

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      That sounds eerily similar the the UK sometimes with people happy to see 3rd world countries suffer provided our standard of living is maintained.

      England used to have more affordable higher education but the tories culled that sadly.

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    Well, I do have a strong connection with my country,same as the rest of my family, the thing is, that country disappeared 30 years ago, and no, I don’t have even a tiny bit of connection with whatever the fuck this is now…

    Also, here is a hug!🤗

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    England is a facile invention and lacks any kind of notable culture as a result. In this specific context, regional identities are far more notable. Liverpudlians, Mancunians, Geordies, Cornish, etc, are felt far more keenly.

    Sometimes these things find their outlet in food culture, but dialect and language is an extremely prevalent cultural marker in England. Even those engaging in received pronunciation play this game. Compared to, say, France, it’s incredibly diverse.

    There’s also a cultural memory of grievance - that which has been done to “you” by other English regions, or England as a whole. Hillsborough is an example of this; boycotting the Sun is a a big deal in Liverpool, even today, while in Yorkshire, they’re still bitter about the harrying of the north, and salty about lancaster to boot.

    Regional-level sports also carry this charge, whether it’s county darts or county cricket.

    But England? Nah, it’s not even real.

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      Yeah you are right, our city based identities resonate with us all more.

      I never thought about the memory of grievance, I’ve always just rolled with it and in the case of Hillsborough being outraged at the pigs and the sun because fuck em.

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    I will say I do wish this thread was also addressed to all our periphery comrades but I can see why you are specifically asking people whose relationships with their country and culture is mixed at best, not people who might actually have something to be proud of without a big fat asterisk next to it. It might be the source of the 1 downvote as I write this, and I love reading other people’s experiences especially people who live very different lives from mine, but I think it’s very normal and valid to want to relate to people with similar experiences, and the core vs. the periphery are definitely different living experiences in many ways (not all or even most ways though).

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    ___ In a way I do accept who I am. Nothing can change the fact that I was raised in America. I am a firm believer that every life, every niche, etc. has beauty to it and there is a lot of unique experience and identity with being an American in 2022 (this is not to say that other nationalities and time periods don’t also have this just as much, of course).

    We are conditioned to be a specific way. We are accustomed to a very specific life and surroundings. We are the most brainwashed people on the Earth (give or take). American Exceptionalism is absolute cancer but there’s no denying that America is a very noteworthy entity and story within this era of human history (again not saying other countries aren’t).

    I love culture from other countries but American culture is what I know best, a lot of it was stolen from Black Americans and other cultures but I’ve grown up with it and it feels a part of my life just like any other, albeit probably a little more alienated from us than other people with their own cultures. But yeah you know, music, food, language, movies, books, accents…

    I hate a lot of American culture–reality TV, 4th of July, all the stereotypical popular stuff and plenty of the specific stuff–and until recently I definitely didn’t appreciate nor ever want to acknowledge that many of the things I like and take for granted are in some way American products.

    You know I don’t know maybe it’s Stockholm Syndrome but I really do appreciate this all for what it is even though it’s so grotesquely ugly. Beautiful in its own right. A hellish abomination born from genocide, slavery, war and capitalism in its most unadulterated form.

    I hate the blood that stains every brick of the house I’m in but I love and appreciate all the good and all the bad. The people, the land, the flora and fauna, the unseeable unknowable things like culture. I don’t know. I definitely am torn between wanting to stay and fight to unfuck this giant ass country from which all suffering seems to emanate and wanting to learn Mandarin or at least Spanish and GTFO of Dodge.

    I don’t have any intentions of ever setting foot in G**** B****** but I’ll send some hug vibes over the 5G Xibuck Portal 😖~~~

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      I agree. Initially I was feeling so isolated as an imperial core member so it wasn’t intended as exclusionary but more focused on “I’m looking for these perspectives that i feel might relate”.

      That said It does feel a bit arbritary as i read comments etc and I agree with your point so I’ve changed the name and added a NB before the body of text 😊.

      Yeah I can see what you mean. I love the nature and fauna of the UK its beautiful but I guess my sad mind doesn’t see that as culture but as nature.

      I’m in the same boat, if I could leave would I? Or would I stay and try to fix this knowing that by fixing it, it would probably help other countries in the long run? I honestly don’t know.

      Thank you 🫂

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    Self-exiled from the states and having a hard time coming up with something good:

    • I still like peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, and peanut butter on apples but I only end up eating them when I can’t afford something else which is pretty often as of late. I don’t know the history of those flavor combinations but it was probably appropriated like everything else.

    • Am also a non-BIPOC jazz musician, which I guess is a bit appropriative but it has a special spot in my heart and mind and is one of very few things which brings me momentary contentment.

    For the rest, fuck the states it’s a shithole country filled with mostly shitty people. China and Russia invading would be doing the world a favor at this point.

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      Where did you move to?

      And man IMO if you love something you love something, there’s lines to be crossed for sure but you’re not inherently being shitty by being a jazz musician, there’s no need to defend that. I’m not black nor indigenous and I rap so I’m biased but idk I’m part arab and I’m fine with a white person wearing a khaffiyeh as long as they’re based. Not to completely derail I’m sure this could be its own whole ass discussion thread.

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        I moved to Netherlands. Obviously still part of the imperial core but it was the best I could do given my circumstances. Now I’m too broke to move anywhere else. But poverty in NL is functionally less soul-suckingingly difficult than poverty in US so that’s something.

        I never know when I’m going to get called out for appropriation when I’m just trying to live my life and not hate it, so thanks for the backup! Props for rapping too, it’s one thing to write rhymes and then a whole other thing to spit them out with style. Very cool!

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      So did you move? You might be the first American I’ve ever met to have moved away!

      Jazz is so cool though!! I don’t think it’s appropriative if you recognise its routes and who invented it but conversely there’s a lot of white musicians who are blind to its history.

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        Yeah I moved 10ish years ago to Netherlands. It’s been crazy but overall worth it seeing what happened in the states after I left. To all the people I knew who told me I was being crazy for moving, the few that I still talk to are starting to finally get it. Unfortunately they’re still trapped in the U.S. socio-political climate so bringing up Marx or even just his ideas is way over their head.

        Agreed there’s a lot of white musicians that just ‘play jazz’ without really diving into its history, the history of some of the great players and innovators, or trying to cultivate the mood of jazz. In this case, NL is definitely worse than in the states. Whole bunch of white boomer pensioners playing the squarest jazz I’ve ever heard. Thankfully there are some exceptions but they’re harder to find.

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          Awwhw wow that must have being a hell of a transition. You’re post Amerikkka now haha.

          It’s sad isn’t it :/ I’ve being wanting to move with my partner for years now but it’s so expensive!! Our friends and family say similar things:

          “why would you want to leave this is the best country in the world, you should be thankful, people drown trying to get here”

          Despite voting to making it as hostile as possible to immigrants they see as lazy and or “not integrating”. Jokes.

          I can imagine that tbf, while the states is… well the states, it has that exposure to the scene and history vs countries that just haven’t.

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            Yeah it was definitely a transition. If I hadn’t moved when I did, there’s no way I would be able to now. I imagine it would be harder once you’ve really settled down too. I had no partner, just left school, and was at a fork in the road with nothing waiting for me at home. Sort of a “this is probably my only shot to gtfo the states, here goes nothing”.

            My family and friends said the same thing when I was getting ready to leave. It’s their fear talking, they can’t imagine why anyone would ever NOT love the U.S. because that’s all they’ve been fed. Except for that stupid line about “people hate America because they hate our freedom” LOL.

            One thing you realize quickly is how few of your friends and family really care to keep in touch once you’re far away. But at least it leaves more space for meeting new “chosen family”. Once you’re out you start to realize that as bad as you thought the propaganda was in the states, it’s even worse after you left and many of the people in your new country believe it too and idolize the U.S. The struggle is worldwide comrade!

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              That must have taken so much courage so major respect.

              I escaped my bio family to uni by just going to a different city so while it’s not the same I can appreciate what you mean about family not keeping in touch and having a found family.

              Ngl I always assumed the propaganda was worse in the US than abroad but I guess now that I think about it, the culture does most of the heavy lifting at home but to convince other countries they have to really work to sell that lie.

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                Moving anywhere is traumatic in its own way isn’t it? At least it always has been for me. But when I look back I know it was a good choice. I hope you’ve felt like moving was worth it for you too.

                I think the propaganda is worse outside the U.S. because it’s a big world to propagandize and so it takes more effort than keeping their own (U.S.) population deluded in their super slim Overton window. That being said, it’s been comparatively “easier” in my experience to reason with people in the EU about anti-U.S./anti-neoliberal ideas but you really have to walk them through it because they are constantly hearing the pro-U.S. lines in their own state media. Where as in the states if you tried to do this with an average person you’d be called names so quickly you’d never get a chance to explain anything.

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                  Absolutely! If I’d stayed at home I’d never have being able to be myself or be happy so despite the massive anxiety it was definitely worth it!

                  Yeah fair, you do have to walk them through it. I can’t speak for others outside of the UK but here it feels very US adjacent.

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    …English plays? 🤷 I can respect how you feel, but the English are known for some SERIOUS theatrical chops.

    However… I agree with you. Whatever culture Europe had was firmly annihilated by capital.

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        Well… I kinda think the English has a unique take on theater. The east also has very unique and not at all derivative of english trappings theater. They have their own takes, even with their own narrative structures.

        However… Yes. Since Im from America, it is really hard for me to identify with whatever America is supposed to be. Americanism is to me, simply a tacky consumer aesthetic.

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    White USian here.

    Culturally I have nothing to really be proud of. My recent ancestors (recent in the grand scheme of human history) were settlers. Did a DNA test because my family name could’ve either been Irish or German, and I wanted to know. Nope. It came out 70% English and 20% Scottish, and statistically insignificant spatterings of Swedish and Aegean, which would make sense since at some point the Romans occupied what is modern England, and the Vikings raided the coasts occasionally later. The DNA results also specified that it is very common for people of English heritage to have about 20% Scottish, and I suspect that is the DNA left over from the Celtic inhabitants pre-Rome.

    So an English descendant living in the US. Wonderful. I don’t feel inclined to go into genealogy because my mental health likely can’t handle knowing the atrocities my specific ancestors personally did, and thus the events which led to my existence.

    I once read a piece about whiteness, and one point I got out of it was that to combat whiteness, you need to find out what your ancestors were before they were “white”, since whiteness is a construct that was and is used to create a sort of “elite club” with exclusive membership and thus exclude and “be better” than the “others”. Even the Irish were excluded from this “elite club” until it became convenient to use them to help keep slaves “in line” and the whites didn’t want the Irish to join the slaves in solidarity. So I did this DNA test and it didn’t help. The “English” (read as “the whites” of the British Isles) have effectively destroyed the cultures of the Anglo-Saxons before, and the Ango-Saxons were invaders themselves who erased the Roman-Celtic groups before them. The Romans tried to erase the Celtic peoples before that. So trying to revert back to what “my people” were before they were full-time oppressors leads me to the Celtic peoples. Looking those up you find the Celtic Britons.

    Information on the Celtic Britons is… scarce to put it mildly (I fucking wonder why, couldn’t possibly be because the Romans, Anglo-Saxons, and English systematically erased them). It is nigh impossibly to find information on how to read, write, and speak “Common Britonic”, the language and dialectic group of the Britons. There are no surviving festivals, religious practices, foods, music, or anything of the sort. The closest you can get is by observing the Cornish, but the English have stolen so much from them that to emulate them, even in the name of finding my pre-oppressor roots, would 100% be appropriation. Same with the Scots who’ve managed to keep a lot of Pictish heritage, but the Picts were pretty different from the Britons culturally.

    As for contemporary culture, I’m a foodie, but my family’s food is bland, so nothing to be proud of there. Not interested in Brit-pop, American football, or soccer. American pop is soul-less.

    Deviating from nation or ethnic culture and to lifestyle and hobby cultures… well I love DnD, but the culture and history is loaded in misogyny and racism, which as a DM I try my best to keep away from my table. I’m a techie, but the tech culture is all rise-and-grind, misogyny, and libertarianism. I’m a gamer, but the toxicity of the gamer community is infamous and the reason I generally hate multiplayer experiences.

    I guess from all this the only culture I belong to that I can be proud of unequivocally is the BDSM/kinkster community. Despite having to fight each and every year to be allowed at Pride, we are revolutionaries. The “leather-daddies” of Stonewall, our very serious consent culture, and the nigh-absolute sexual empowerment of any and all gender identities to be who or what you want, when you want, with whatever relationship you want with your fellow humans (so long as they consent), that is revolutionary.

    Tldr; I’m a white USian with English blood, nothing to be proud of there, despite my desperate and likely misguided attempts to eek something out of it to escape my deep self loathing (world’s smallest violin in comparison to what my people are doing every day to everyone else, I know). Most of the communities to which I belong have shit cultures, save one, despite the efforts by so so so many people, even those we are in solidarity with, to keep us hidden.

    Before you downvote or rip into me!: I know full well I touched on some delicate topics, and that I said a lot here. Please empathize, I am trying my best to expand my understanding of colonialism, feminism, and the various oppressive systems we live in, but as a white person in the US my understanding can only ever be complete shit at best. If there are bad takes in here, I welcome clarification and education. The things I discussed here I have only discussed in depth with my spouse and therapist about, so please be understanding that I am trying to be real and revealing some serious vulnerabilities in my own life I am dealing with.

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      Not at all, thank you for feeling comfortable enough to open up and share!

      I can relate a lot to what you said especially with naturally gravitating to traditionally “nerdy” interests only to feel isolated because of rampant misogyny, racism and chauvinism of these groups.

      I was huge into anime growing up but I can’t even bring myself to watch it anymore, a big part of that is depression/adhd killing hobbies and interests but also the degeneracy of certain groups of the fandom make me ashamed. I know it’s not representative of everyone at all but remembering back to the community before I dropped out and the toxicity just makes me recoil.

      Same with gaming, what a sorry group of people which is weird me saying this as someone who spends hours a day playing video games. It’s why I enjoy the memes about video game enjoyer vs Gamer. The later represents essentially the core issues with a lot of traditionally male dominated and elitist communities. The former representing the positive shift by members of the community to open ot up to others whether they be female or lgbt+ etc.

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    I’ve never felt that much connected to my birthcountry, The Netherlands. I do feel a connection with the town I grew up in, a rougher working class town. But not so much the country. I don’t have special feelings for places like Amsterdam or Groningen or whatever. But I don’t dislike them or their people either.

    This became even more clear when I migrated to another country. People sometimes ask me what I miss and I can’t think of anything other than maybe family and friends. But not a cultural thing. I do sometimes struggle with a lack of Dutch directness but I don’t really miss it.

    At the same time I don’t feel ‘Belgian’ or something right now either. I like the place where I live and I like my friends over here, but I don’t feel culturally connected or something.

    I’ve always felt like me I guess. I’m sure my country of birth had some influences on my character but I don’t really feel the need to do things ‘the Dutch way’, whatever that is.

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      I’d also like to add that a lot of Dutch pride comes from us being a rich country with a high standard of living. Becoming a communist and reading Marx let me to understand where that comes from. Exploiting others.

      I can’t be proud of my country because I can’t be proud of its history.

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          I liked your part about history lessons because Western history, especially Dutch and English, is just either killing non-white people or other white people because they want control of our non-white people.

          ‘In this century we set sail to Indonesia, where we killed, exploited and erased their culture and people. The next century we somehow ended up in Africa where we did the same. The next century, though, the Bri’ish set sail to our land to kill us. Anyway, all this killing and plundering and abuse did make some people in this country rich though. Be proud we killed half the globe because without that your life would be much more miserable!’

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            Thank you 😊

            It’s exactly how you described there though, through murder we placed ourselves above the rest. That’s not history, that’s a list of crimes against humanity.

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              When countries go around the world killing, raping and looting everything they come across they get called ‘beacons of democracy’ and ‘civilized’ but when I do the same in my city I get solitary confinement smh

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      I’ve found something I’m proud of. Mom, get the camera.

      Riding bicycles. I’ve never truly appreciated Dutch bicycle culture until I moved away and I now have to sometimes fear for my life because the bikepath stops and I need to get on the road.

      I’ve read a comment once on some YouTube video about worldclass bike infrastructure that said something like: ‘Dutch bike infrastructure isn’t world class. It’s Dutch class, which is way better.’ and I agree with that.

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        Yes the bikes! That’s one of my favorite parts about living in NL. It’s so easy to just bike everywhere. Also helps keep bills down without paying for cars and insurance.

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        I thought it was better overall at first, moved into Europe. The longer I stayed the more I realised I traded one form of unhappiness for another. Then I became a marxist and the veil fell away, I think I see how things are here for what they are, and I’m sure things will only get worse here not better.

        I wish I could say I knew what to do about it. Staying here and fighting/dying for westerners is a really hard sell for me; it’s not like I was welcomed here either.

        I think my future lies somewhere where people accept me, otherwise fighting for their liberation is a hard thing to wrap me head around. The problem is I don’t have a good idea of where that can be, and I feel like time will run out at some point soon.

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          Yeah that’s fair, don’t feel pressured or on a time limit though. I’m trying to find some community work to do to help feel like I’m contributing to helping people but I get your point about not feeling welcome.