• @panic@lemmygrad.ml
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    22 years ago

    I will say that a bisexual person has the right to acknowledge their identity even while being on a safe space from bi/homophobia and not having relationships with the same gender, maybe ever. The bi community benefits from the normalization of the identity and the bi person can understand themselves better.

    I understand feeling like “not enough bisexual” but there’s not a long checklist my guy. But that’s a personal thing. Feel free to reach out to me if you need to talk about this, I struggle with it as well.

    Sorry if I made you uncomfortable with this.

    • Idk im not a huge fan of labels personally, which is why i originally said “why do we need to label everything”, although its ok if people want to label themselves. I really dont care what i am, whether you think im heterosexual or bisexual, i dont care. When i describe it to people, i generally say im “80% heterosexual, 20% homosexual”. I think it describes it more accurately than just saying im bisexual. I dont think checkbox labels are very fitting to describe these types of things, i prefer more accurate lenghty descriptions, but thats just me.

      Nah you did not make me feel uncomfortable my dude. Frankly the absolute dogpiling i got today for posting a video of Infrared here made me way more uncomfortable than anything you ever said to me in this thread lol (if you dont know what im talking about see my post history).