• Cowbee [he/they]
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    2 days ago

    Fighting trolls should not be done by invalidating neopronouns, speak to anyone that uses neopronouns and they’ll likely tell you that it quickly cascades into witch hunting.

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      2 days ago

      Is it still invalidating when someone using neopronouns is doing so disingenuously?

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        2 days ago

        Again, invalidating neopronouns is a cascading issue that results in witch-hunting and should be avoided.

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          2 days ago

          Not sure I agree as it seems like black and white thinking.

          I.e. I could imagine a scenario where someone is very obviously/admits to using neopronouns disingenuously and that would break my social contract with them to honour it.

          If I make an assessment of neopronoun usage on a case by case basis I can still avoid witch hunts. It’s similar to how I determine in real life if someone is an asshole or not.

          Another way; I can support a person who I genuinely believe uses neopronouns while denouncing and excluding someone who doesn’t.

          • Cowbee [he/they]
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            2 days ago

            It is a very tricky slope. It’s best to never compromise on neopronoun usage even with suspected trolls, they can be discredited without erasing the pronouns.

      • Cowbee [he/they]
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        2 days ago

        What do you mean? My name’s not Ada, and I have 2, this one and the Hexbear version under the same name.

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            1 day ago

            Ada & Cowbee are not the same person, so who’s stupid now?

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              1 day ago

              It’s just basic maffs, Cowbee:

              1. Any given opinion can only be held by one person in the universe.
              2. Admin Ada @ blahaj and you have the same opinion regarding neopronouns.
              3. Therefore you and Ada incontrovertibly must be the same person.
              • Cowbee [he/they]
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                1 day ago

                Oh, that’s funny. Pretty sure Ada would hate me for being a Marxist, so that’s especially strange.