• greensand
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    3 years ago

    There’s a conflict with treating others how you want to be treated (idealist) and how you were actually treated (revenge), assuming you weren’t treated well.

    Further, it can be considered just lucky enough if you have grandparents’ love to cancel out parents’ lack thereof. Or motherly love to cancel out father’s lack thereof. It has to cancel out in some way