Counterpoint to option 2: complimenting people is actually cool and good, so long as you’re normal. Caveat: if you’re cis-het-male presenting, maybe it won’t be as well received. But above all, just be normal.
im a normal dude who gives compliments all the time. it literally is just as simple as be normal, in my experience. ive said “I love your hair!” to black women verbatim before (and also other women but just considering the context here), and they were like “thanks!” and we moved on with our lives.
Counterpoint to option 2: complimenting people is actually cool and good, so long as you’re normal. Caveat: if you’re cis-het-male presenting, maybe it won’t be as well received. But above all, just be normal.
im a normal dude who gives compliments all the time. it literally is just as simple as be normal, in my experience. ive said “I love your hair!” to black women verbatim before (and also other women but just considering the context here), and they were like “thanks!” and we moved on with our lives.