• dustyData@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    Aragorn wouldn’t mind how many trips it took you and would never question your masculinity, identity or worth as a person for it.

  • Neato@ttrpg.network
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    4 months ago

    Take as many trips as it takes. Those 3 minutes don’t matter. You’re just going to use them on Lemmy, anyways. Don’t strain yourself and don’t risk dropping anything. We’re all getting older and minor injuries take forever to heal now and if you throw your neck or shoulder out say goodbye to that stuff you wanted to get done this weekend.

  • Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works
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    4 months ago

    My state banned bags, so if you forgot to bring your reusable, your SOL. And it’s a non issue with those huge reusable bags, no longer do you have a dozen plastic strapping with knife like force cutting into your fingers.

    Although I would love to see someone carry a dozen of those cheap paper bags in one trip.

  • protist@mander.xyz
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    4 months ago

    Real men bring their own large tote bag and don’t have to worry about carting 15 tiny plastic bags

  • GissaMittJobb
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    4 months ago

    While we’re on the toxic masculinity train - can you really call yourself a man if you brought the groceries home by car? I doubt it, tbh.

  • The Snark Urge@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    My shopping trolley carries a literal trunk load of groceries. I walk it around town for two hours every week. Car-free is carefree, I don’t give a fuck how it looks.

  • DAMunzy@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    4 months ago

    With age comes wisdom. And muscle and hand pain. I’ll deal with the multiple trips instead of the pain.

  • grrgyle@slrpnk.net
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    4 months ago

    My partner is like this. She’ll load herself up with this ridiculous tower of bags, books, purses, and whatever else she needs to bring in the house.

    I don’t get it. Just make two trips. Just make two comfortable, casual trips, where getting to the door before your arms give out isn’t a challenge.

  • pyre@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    and people get offended when others point out how fragile their masculinity can be.

  • JoYo
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    4 months ago

    I thought that said rip as in bong rip.