They are losing their fucking minds.

  • hperrin@lemmy.worldEnglish
    256·
    9 months ago

    I mean, the most manly and masculine thing you can do is exclusively have sex with big, masculine, manly men, right? Having sex with a woman is so emasculating, because you’re enjoying someone’s femininity, and that’s the worst possible thing for a man, so I’ve been told. Therefore, it’s super gay to have sex with women. Be a real man and exclusively have sex with your manly bros.

    • CodeName@infosec.pubEnglish
      1083·
      9 months ago

      This guy is 43 and he’s saying a 34 year old woman is too old for him. Someone sound an alarm and set out the red flags…

    • webghost0101@sopuli.xyzEnglish
      734·
      9 months ago

      Coded? Can this get more blatend what the actual fuck. This is worse then grab em by the pussy

      “ The Wyoming Republican Party circulated an email that included an argument from lobbyists that since minors could get pregnant “marriage MUST remain open to them for the sake of those children.”

      Who the fuck ars these lobbiest? Epstein?

        • webghost0101@sopuli.xyzEnglish
          112·
          9 months ago

          You should see some of my professional work emails where after proof reading multiples i still end up sending sentences with 20% of the words missing.

          You can catch me doing that on lemmy too. And i swear that when i re-read myself i see full sentences with nothing missing.

          The thing is, have a cognitive communicate deficit, simply thinking about language feels alien and i have to put alot of effort in translating my actual thoughts into characters yall can understand. My inner monologue is a mix mathematics and images, no words.

          I had 2 choice

          1. Avoid communicating out of anxiety and stess that people will think less of me because my words (i used to be there)

          2. stop caring and assume that most are smart enough to figure it out and respectful enough not to make it into an issue. (Where i am now)

          Those that aren’t smart enough are unlikely to understand some of the importance nuances i do put in language. (Because half the things i need a word for don’t have a known word so its all approximate translations) and those that cant stay respectfull are a bigger problem for society than o’l me.

            • webghost0101@sopuli.xyzEnglish
              51·
              9 months ago

              Doesn’t work if you need to use more then one language and doesnt account for grammar or missing words. The language i use most often is also a local variation that is rarely supported.

              If you do know a way to get one that can detect and adapt across multiple Language i am all ears. Because as much as i try not to care i do wish things where different.

              Ai spellcheck does look promising though seems much more capable and dynamic, looking forward to see that progress.

    • Deceptichum@kbin.social
      0·
      9 months ago

      Average lifespan is 77 for women, she’s not far off.

      Also I’m middle aged, I’ve never thought of that. I need to go have my midlife crisis now.

      • deweydecibel@lemmy.worldEnglish
        1·
        9 months ago

        “Middle age” has never been about being exactly 50% of the way through the average life span. It’s much less about “how much time you have left” and more about the point where you can’t realistically think of yourself as young anymore. The effects of age become impossible to ignore, compounding, and increasingly obvious.

        It’s basically just your 40s-60s. Not the exact midpoint.

          • Localhorst86@feddit.deEnglish
            1·
            9 months ago

            Think of it as being a middle aged woman/man - timer starts when you’re considered a woman/man, so I probably at 18. Then, being “middle aged” actually falls in the 40s-50s.

    • Mycatiskai@lemmy.caEnglish
      412·
      9 months ago

      I think what they’re saying is that having sex with a woman who is vastly more successful than you will ever be in six lifetimes, then that is gay.

    • MystikIncarnate@lemmy.caEnglish
      361·
      9 months ago

      I think we reached that point a while ago.

      The insanity of these statements has escalated pretty rapidly and honestly, none of it surprises me anymore. Everything you do is now gay.

      I’m ok with it. If you want to think I’m gay because (insert literally anything here), then fine, I guess I’m gay. I’ll go have gay sex with my very female (with female anatomy and two x chromosomes) wife, and live my happily gay life in peace, thanks.

      Being gay, or being called gay, isn’t an insult to me. Only juveniles would find it insulting. You know why? Because juveniles think that being different is bad. I grew up and realized that everyone is different and it’s because of that difference that we, as a species, can survive. Our differences make us strong. So bluntly, call me weird, call me a freak, call me whatever the hell you want, because all you’re saying is that I’m different, and different makes us stronger. I’m proud to be different than my neighbors and coworkers. I think differently than they do. I approach problems differently, I find solutions differently. That’s a good thing.

      I’m not always right, and I’m not always the most efficient, and that is because of the differences between me and others. I celebrate that difference and you should too.

    • Notyou@sopuli.xyzEnglish
      21·
      9 months ago

      Idk if you ever saw or remember The Sopranos. It started late 90s and one of the storylines was about one of the older guys liked going down on the woman he was seeing. Well word got out to the other guys that were part of the family and said it was gay to go down on a woman.

      Me and my wife just busted out laughing. Like people really think this? The answer is yes. People think this and are idiots. Pleasing a woman in bed is gay apparently. The older guy ended up breaking up with the woman he liked because he was getting clowned on by the other members of the family.

      • I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.worldEnglish
        19·
        9 months ago

        Same crowd that thinks it’s gay to clean your own ass after pooping (and therefore doesn’t do it).

      • CurlyMoustache@lemmy.worldEnglish
        2·
        9 months ago

        The Soprano logic, if I understood it ritght, was: if you do that to a woman, you probably would just as easy do that to a man.

        But, then again, I’m not an extremely sexist sociopath as Tony was

  • inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.worldEnglish
    102·
    9 months ago

    I got curious and looked in to who this guy was. And, well, Owen got banned from most socials after he called Obama the n-word, so OF COURSE Elon had to bring him back so he further share his thought with the world.

    • SpezBroughtMeHere@lemmy.worldEnglish
      955·
      9 months ago

      I never understood banning people for speech you don’t like. Wouldn’t the logical and entertaining method be to put them on full display, letting themselves be mocked and ridiculed? My take is let the asshats spew their views so we all know who not to associate with.

      • platypus_plumba@lemmy.worldEnglish
        312·
        9 months ago

        Nha, give them as little exposure as they can get, that way they don’t corrupt the minds of gullible males who are a 4 but think they deserve a 10 because they can provide.

      • cbarrick@lemmy.worldEnglish
        23·
        9 months ago

        The problem is the network effect.

        As other people with these views hear that kind of rhetoric more and more, they come to find it acceptable. Thus pushing even more people to find it acceptable.

        This kind of rhetoric should definitely be legal, but it should not be given a platform.

        • intensely_human@lemm.eeEnglish
          14·
          9 months ago

          As other people with these views hear that kind of rhetoric more and more, they come to find it acceptable

          Wouldn’t others with those views already find them acceptable?

      • jigsaw250@lemmy.worldEnglish
        6·
        9 months ago

        That may work for normal people. Not so much for those unhinged enough to actually hate someone who has different characteristics than them. Unfortunately Twitter is filled with the unhinged.

      • daltotron@lemmy.worldEnglish
        6·
        9 months ago

        I never understood banning people for speech you don’t like.

        spam is extremely powerful, and is what I would qualify most internet “speech” as being, realistically. seeing 200 different 500 character (at max) comments, that are all variations of the same exact statement isn’t really like, speech, in the conventional sense.

  • BreadstickNinja@lemmy.worldEnglish
    100·
    9 months ago

    Who would be attracted to this billionaire sex symbol, who’s one of the most successful performers on the planet? Madness, I tell you.

  • cmbabul@lemmy.worldEnglish
    1002·
    9 months ago

    I straight up do not understand these men all the way down to a practical level.

    • dejected_warp_core@lemmy.worldEnglish
      11·
      9 months ago

      I just want a dinner date so I can ask what demon pact she signed to get her PR team.

      I’m nowhere near her target demographic, yet somehow, I wind up knowing about every album drop, high profile concert happening, and so on. I’m actively blocking and avoiding advertising on everything and they still find me. It’s honestly a little concerning.

  • klemptor@startrek.websiteEnglish
    851·
    9 months ago

    As an actual middle-aged woman who can’t even name one Taylor Swift song, give me a giant fucking break. She’s rich, famous, appears to have a good head on her shoulders (from what I hear at least), and makes music people really love. This sexist troglodyte is just butthurt that she dares to exist and be successful without his permission, plus he probably wants to bang her. He can fuck right off.

  • circuitfarmer@lemmy.sdf.orgEnglish
    73·
    9 months ago

    Yep, the only point of being male is spreading that seed. Have to raise the next generation of bootlickers to keep that machine rolling!

    /s obviously

    Fuck these clowns

    • PoliticalAgitator@lemmy.worldEnglish
      492·
      9 months ago

      “That’s not gay, it’s patriotic. Our commander-in-chief is tirelessly fighting the LGBT woke groomer leftist virus and if he needs a warm mouth to help him focus, it’s the duty of red blooded Americans to provide one”

      You can’t squirm out of anything when you’re not worried about being honest.

  • HotDogFingies@kbin.social
    66·
    9 months ago

    Taylor Swift and I may be the same age, but when did 34 become middle aged? Or has the American lifespan decreased so much that I should expect to die at age 68?

        • soggy_kitty@sopuli.xyzEnglish
          411·
          9 months ago

          I wonder if America can do anything to their healthcare system to improve it?

          Oh wait

          • Echo Dot@feddit.ukEnglish
            10·
            9 months ago

            It’s just that the mean free path of an American and a random bullet is about 72 years.

        • I Cast Fist@programming.devEnglish
          3·
          9 months ago

          When even the rich live in constant fear of going bankrupt after a single visit to a hospital, that tends to happen

          • RaoulDook@lemmy.worldEnglish
            15·
            9 months ago

            I’m not rich and I go to the doctor for any healthcare needs that I have, in America. If you are neglecting your health because of fear of doctor bills, you should not do that. The healthcare system is overpriced but it’s not so overpriced that you should neglect your health.

            If you have normal health insurance it should be affordable, and it always has been for everyone I’ve known. Even my family members who’ve had extensive surgeries that were life or death matters got their medical care, and the bills did not bankrupt anyone.

            • MutilationWave@lemmy.worldEnglish
              2·
              9 months ago

              Most Americans are living paycheck to paycheck. They literally cannot afford medical care at all.

              I have afforded a minor surgery. Your family members have afforded multiple surgeries. We are privileged.

              • RaoulDook@lemmy.worldEnglish
                22·
                9 months ago

                I guess all the hospitals must be going broke then, since “most Americans” “literally cannot afford medical care at all” right? That would leave them with very few customers to pay medical bills if most Americans can’t afford medical care at all.

        • onion@feddit.deEnglish
          91·
          9 months ago

          At birth. Someone who’s made it past infancy will have a higher expectancy

          • MutilationWave@lemmy.worldEnglish
            1·
            9 months ago

            I thought infant mortality was not counted in average lifespan calculations. I looked it up and I was wrong. Just in case anyone else was misinformed like me.

    • dejected_warp_core@lemmy.worldEnglish
      21·
      9 months ago

      Honestly, I don’t like it either. But it does make sense. Some health risk factors change drastically between 30 and 40 (e.g. heart disease, colon cancer), suggesting a kind of dividing line between “my body just does what it’s supposed to” and “what, I have to do extra stuff to survive now?!” A lot of people also change rapidly in physical appearance during this time too, exhibiting profound male pattern baldness, love handles, belly fat, winkles, etc.

    • BlanketsWithSmallpox@lemmy.worldEnglish
      23·
      9 months ago

      30s have always been middle aged lol. It’s not even the start of middle aged.

      0-25. 26-50. 51-75.

      Most Americans be dying at 75.

  • drmeanfeel@lemmy.worldEnglish
    65·
    9 months ago

    Taylor Swift has publically had sex with a ton of guys?

    Gee you’d think that would be more scandalous news than “may be attending the super bowl, schedule pending”

    • EmergMemeHologram@startrek.websiteEnglish
      21·
      9 months ago

      According to Cosmo she has dated like 12 guys in 16 years.

      The average weight of an adult male in the US is 90kg, but Kelce weighs 113kg, so statistically she’s probably dated a bit over a metric ton of guys.