Run tor proxy and setup xmpp client to work via the proxy. To make sure everything work as expected you can try open page https://myip.com via the proxy
XMPP/Jabber is the community-owned standard for real-time federated messaging.
For a quick start click here
Support chat
Dedicated Lemmy instance
XMPP.net Provider List
Also see JoinJabber.org FAQ
Run tor proxy and setup xmpp client to work via the proxy. To make sure everything work as expected you can try open page https://myip.com via the proxy