• jackpot
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    10 months ago

    as a realist, allowing porn would do wonders ngl

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        10 months ago

        Depends on the instance.

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            It’s the foundational concept of lemmy, and the main protection against enshitification.

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            This ‘instance’ shit is the only reason lemmy got popular in the first place

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              No it got popular because Reddit pissed a lot of people off temporarily. The only thing segregated instances does is confuse and upset the average person. Hell I host like 10 different alternative open source front ends for various websites and I fucking hate Lemmy instances. It makes Discovery new content unbelievably tedious.

              What if I just want to browse communities? I can only do that on a per instant spaces, I have to go to that instance go to its communities tabs to browse and then if I find something I want I have to take its address and then go back to my own instance so I can subscribe to it with my account. That pisses me off and makes me not want to bother with it let alone the average user.

              The sad state of reality is that centralized systems will always eventually get turned into corporate greed money machines but decentralized instances are by their very nature just shit and hard to work with and no one wants to put up with them.

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                the whole process needs to be improved, it’s ridiculous as of now

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                Agreed, it was a steep learning curve just to even figure out how to use it. The concept of Lemmy is amazing but like you said, finding content is very unintuitive.

                I think if there was some kind of database or reference for instances and the communities they have, it would be way easier to find what you’re into. Somebody way smarter than me should look into that ;)

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                If it wasn’t for instances, lemmy would just be lemmy.ml, filled with tankies, and unable to handle more than 10K people. You would never have joined.

                The reddit exodus only caused people to leave reddit, not join lemmy. There have been dozens of reddit alternatives over the years and many of them were around at the time of the reddit exodus. Why do you think they all failed?

                @kewwwi@lemmy.world

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              I’m here because reddit is fuck and my favorite reddit app converted to Lemmy, and I’m certain that was a bigger reason for lemmy’s popularity growth than instances ever was

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            The instance shit means that no single entity holds all the power over Lemmy.

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            That sentence makes no sense. That’s like saying “this ‘website’-shit isn’t helping the internet grow tbh.”

            Instances are Lemmy. They’re all seperate platforms that just so happen to share stuff and use mostly the same code. It’s just people hosting their own social media sites.

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            The main reason lemmy isn’t growing is because of the userbase. Alot of the things I say are opinions. But this is just a fact the userbase is incredibly toxic. Especially folk from lemmygrad and prehaps lemmyml lemmyworld instances as well. A good marjority of 4channers are less toxic than a good chunk of lemmy users I would say

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              But this is just a fact the userbase is incredibly toxic.

              Most egregious case of projection I have ever seen. Why is anyone upvoting this clown?

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      I joined a porn instance to fill the gap and trust me, you’re not missing out on anything