Develop into your own beautiful human, first. A lot of dudes are mid at best; myself included

  • Goun
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    6 hours ago

    Well, women don’t say random shit at you on the streets, for example. I’m a man so I don’t have the fortune, but I’m sure there’s a lot more they have to deal with.

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        5 hours ago

        I think poster is just making it clear that in the context of this post (and life) women are subjected to strange men’s “advice” and are in fact pressured by street strangers to conform to male desire, a phenomenon men are not subjected to. You’re comment didnt explicitly diminish that fact, but i can see how someone reading it might feel the need to clarify the difference

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          Are you sure men are not subjected to something similar? Granted, no random women came to me on the street, but I received all kinds of weird “advice” by distantly acquainted women as a young man, which in all honesty also felt like “pressuring me to conform to female desire”

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          5 hours ago

          Ah. Yeah, I didnt mean to diminish anything. Kind of annoying people are so combative, tho.

    • agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works
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      6 hours ago

      If attention is water, women drown while men die of thirst. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, both experiences have their pros and cons.