Sending good vibes to all of my trans comrades cat-trans

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    righteous fury, cishet scum discussion

    lemmy is filled with SO MUCH TRASH and cishet scum intruding on trans places. this is the only fucking place that is safe and filled to the brim with trans people on any site on the internet im in. even random discord chats let cis people come in and berate the trans userbase, and of course theyre fucking wastelands with a handful of libs in charge.

    i’m so fucking glad i own guns and live out in the middle of nowhere, if i ever had to deal with these transphobic cis fucks within 5 miles of me theyd be grizzly chow

    anyways, how are yall doing today? 😇

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      yeah, it’s so bad. I know it’s the most obvious example, but how does a space like blahaj even get as bad as it does? of course it’s pure liberalism, simple as, but how do trans people not completely lose their minds existing in a space like that stalin-stressed

      also, I’m doing well! how are you?

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        how do trans people not completely lose their minds existing in a space like that

        i personally “enjoy” going into these places and harassing cissies and make them do their whole ‘waaah mah civility hurt people hurt people’ thing. i know its all crocodile tears, but i like to think they got a little sad that their “TRANS FRIEND” is calling them human refuse for being in a trans space

        also usually makes the pickmes come out in force, awhh our little trans space should include cis people that want to see us all dead in a ditch 👼 you need to be nice they might change their minds after killing you because it made them feel a little stressed out. imagine how good that would be!

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          you need to be nice they might change their minds after killing you because it made them feel a little stressed out. imagine how good that would be!

          shades of “yes, our soldiers came to your country and [war crimes] everyone you’ve ever known or loved, but then we made a movie about how it made them kind of sad! can we get a little ‘U.S.A.! U.S.A.!’ in the chat?”

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        but how do trans people not completely lose their minds existing in a space like that

        It’s maddening, especially in the civility heavy spaces where transphobia will often get a pass but getting mad at it won’t.

        I don’t interact with the poop usually, that was just a particularly egregious thread and I was not busy at work.

    • Luna [she/her, fae/faer]@hexbear.net
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      I saw a thread on rc/transgender on lemmy.ml that made me lose faith in humanity. I like to see what goes on outside of bear/grad every once in a while, but it’s horrible to see every time.

    • this is the only fucking place that is safe and filled to the brim with trans people on any site on the internet im in

      There are twitch spaces that are intolerant of intolerance and some are quick to ban based on people just failing vibe checks. Granted, most are doing things like drawing art and playing vidya games, so like gender stuff typically isn’t the primary topic, but some much more frequently have gender as a topic and the active chatters are overwhelmingly trans.

      anyways, how are yall doing today?

      Alright. Wish I could get more hours of sleep as has been the norm for most of the summer. Decided to finally try wearing a bra to work today for the first time, so that’s cool. Realized right after getting to work that my generalized discomfort this week might actually just be nipple sensitivity, but my brain sucks at communicating stuff like that to me, so idk. Day just started and usually its something that I noticed towards the end of day.

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      yea you are me, except I got tired and quit lol. This is what I used to do in liberal queer internet rooms, like the queer book server I was in. I will test the boundadies and antagonise lib queers if given the chance. Holy shit do those places EVER have a pickme issue there were so many assimilationist trans people. I was in the fucking trenches.

      I hope you get elected mod and enact glorious purges 07

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      That was such a shitshow, glad that we both ended up mods in the aftermath!