• LesbianLiberty [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    1 year ago

    That’d imply you’re only really looking while you’re in ML spaces which are uh, notably not for that. Professionalism and all. It’s not a social club (although y’all should be friends and can rely on each other), it’s a revolutionary space. That kind of seeking for others can create needless drama and interpersonal dynamics

      • danisth [he/him]@hexbear.net
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        1 year ago

        Yeah I think a more pertinent question is how early into dating are you open with your ML beliefs. Hiding your power level to woo a lib sounds like a recipe for disaster, but since most people aren’t all that conscious of their political beliefs, a “lib” who isn’t scared of dating a full commie is probably worth hanging on to.