• Breakyfix@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      1 year ago

      congratulations! you have discovered that sexuality is not as simple as “luv me boiz” and/or “luv me girlz” :D

    • Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      1 year ago

      No. These are males (gender) presenting as feminine (presentation). Often this presentation breaks - will they have a female voice? Attitude and personality?

      And if you were attracted to them… Yes, you’re attracted to a man*

      But being gay or bisexual or any sexuality is a spectrum. You can be bisexual, if you choose to use that label, and attracted almost entirely to women, and then the rare man. Or be attracted to all genders but still only choose to have sex with certain genders.

      I just came across someone who said they were attracted to a picture of a bear (hair man). And someone said “hey, you’re not straight” and they replied: “Im only attracted to this man, here, online, and I’m not having sex with anyone. So I’d rather claim to be straight.”

      In this case I think sexuality is a process. Maybe they will end up accepting their attraction and acting on it, maybe they won’t. And either fork in the road would lead to a great life.