• Breakyfix@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 year ago

    congratulations! you have discovered that sexuality is not as simple as “luv me boiz” and/or “luv me girlz” :D

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      1 year ago

      i get extremely repulsed if i was attracted to someone but find out they were born with a penis. Does that make me transphobic?

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          He said “find out they were born with a penis”, not “find out they have a penis”. So yeah, transphobic.

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              The fact there was a cock growing there at some point. The body is male, i couldnt get myself to sleep with that person. I’m fine with them being around as a friend/neighbour or whatever role they fill, but i couldn’t form any real romantic relationship if i know the person was born with a penis.

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                    It’s just your sexuality, and no, you’re not transphobic. We’re not at a point where the medically-created vaginas are anything like real vaginas, and on top of that, you’re 100% allowed to be turned off by whatever.

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                    No I think this genuinely comes from a fear of trans people. Transphobia. But since you’re being honest and good faith, and not hateful about it, I can see why it’s confusing to be called transphobic.