Comrades, that time again! How have things been going for you? Anything cool you wanna talk about? Things not so great? This is your space to talk about it! Remember, you are loved stalin-heart

Up and down for me. Tour was a complete dud, we’re never working with the booking agent again, and my ex let me know she’ll be moving out in the middle of December. I’m glad they’ll get to spend some time with their parents, they’ve been talking about moving back for years, but I just wish it was under better circumstances. Not sure what I’m gonna do yet. On the bright side, love life seems to be on an upswing again. The person who got us hotel rooms on tour came over to hang out last night. We had a few drinks with the corgi, and then TRIED to watch that killer sloth movie, but we both fell asleep on the couch for like 2 hours together. THey also baked me a loaf of chocolate pumpkin bread to say welcome home, which was super sweet.

Hope you’re all well!

  • ComradeSharkfuckerEnglish
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    1 year ago

    Girlfriend and I are going through a really rough patch. She got an IUD put in and it fucked her hormones so badly she almost instantly started hating me. Took about a day before she couldn’t stand being around me and didn’t know why. We took the IUD out about a week and a half ago and while things have gotten a bit better, she doesn’t have any sexual attraction to me and physical touch (the main way I show affection) is very uncomfortable to her. I tried other routes of showing affection like acts of service but it just made her feel guilty. Idk what to do :( and it’s been really hard. We’ve been dating almost 4 years and I don’t want to lose her over this. I’ll admit things weren’t amazing before the IUD either but it made things very bad very fast and we haven’t really recovered. We are looking into couples therapy and I hope it helps, I really do.