Isn’t this very close to what dronerights got banned for? Saying that they/them is not a gendered pronoun set when in fact it is the pronouns for nonbinary people?
I’m nonbinary transfem, use she/her exclusively and view they/them as misgendering me because these are not my fucking pronouns. Nonbinary people aren’t a monolith, nonbinary isn’t a gender, it’s a catchall term for an infinite number of gender identities and expressions and we go by all kinds of pronouns. If i wouldn’t tell people i’m nonbinary, it would be impossible to tell the difference between me and a “binary trans woman”, whatever that is.
Isn’t this very close to what dronerights got banned for? Saying that they/them is not a gendered pronoun set when in fact it is the pronouns for nonbinary people?
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Thank you, it’s still hard for me to order the categories correctly in my head.
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I agree, that was very much a “last straw” situation.
I’m nonbinary transfem, use she/her exclusively and view they/them as misgendering me because these are not my fucking pronouns. Nonbinary people aren’t a monolith, nonbinary isn’t a gender, it’s a catchall term for an infinite number of gender identities and expressions and we go by all kinds of pronouns. If i wouldn’t tell people i’m nonbinary, it would be impossible to tell the difference between me and a “binary trans woman”, whatever that is.