A person had a medical emergency, it sucks, but to treat them like they did something purposefully wrong, or that they should feel ashamed, is not just pointlessly mean, it’s ableist, too.
Regardless, I know someone with IBS, and yes they constantly are embarrassed by their incontinence.
This person wasn’t “treating” them differently, they were exhibiting empathy.
You should probably learn how to tell before jumping to conclusions. My advice would be to read a book, or anything that wasn’t written on an online forum.
A person had a medical emergency, it sucks, but to treat them like they did something purposefully wrong, or that they should feel ashamed, is not just pointlessly mean, it’s ableist, too.
Do you have IBS?
Regardless, I know someone with IBS, and yes they constantly are embarrassed by their incontinence.
This person wasn’t “treating” them differently, they were exhibiting empathy.
You should probably learn how to tell before jumping to conclusions. My advice would be to read a book, or anything that wasn’t written on an online forum.
And people are going to do it. Surprise!