I can but that seems like putting this specific person on blast, which is not my goal. If not this person it would be someone else because this is what tone policing rules cause. As the site grows more team members will be required and more team members will interpret (and reinterpret) tone policing rules on top of contributing to discourse that expands and compounds upon the problems that they cause. The end result is as I said before - these rules have a liberalising effect. Whether it happens in the short term or whether it happens in the longterm organisationally, they’re a negative.
Certain specific things end up going on wild unexpected tangents with these social media platforms when interpreted by teams. I recall when reddit completely destroyed the entire ecosystem that their platform had existed upon up to that point when they implemented the “no witchhunting” rule. This rule was intended to be a rule to stop people doing off-site witchhunts of people like the boston bomber or the lady that threw a cat in a wheeliebin because people get things very wrong in those witchhunts. Modteams however across the entire site re-interpreted the rule in a way that suppresses the ability of any userbase on reddit to raise the issue of a moderator abusing their powers on another subreddit. This completely collapsed reddit’s whole “just go make another subreddit” ideal that it was based on because you can’t just get an entire subreddit to move subreddits if no modteam will let you talk about the issue with another modteam because “witchhunting”. The effect of this rule was the longterm degeneration of the entire ecosystem reddit relied upon and I don’t even think a lot of reddit’s own admins realised what it did to the site.
Obviously that’s not directly relevant, just a tangential example of how different certain things can work out when teams interpret and re-interpret and re-interpret a concept multiple times down the line.
For me, tone policing rules in any form should always take the format of good faith vs bad faith participation. Let people speak how they speak, so long as the content of what they’re saying has merit and is being written in good faith. If however someone is participating in bad faith then slap them around a bit.
(Happy to share privately but again, this isn’t about the individual mod for me but about a rule that needs to be more carefully thought about with regard to its implementation)
The main issue here is ultimately how to let people speak the way they might speak in any environment, that includes if they’re in the pub and some dickhead deserves to be called a dickhead from time to time. The leeway to allow that is useful in generating a trust-based community. Another factor here is that is just happens from time to time. Everyone on these platforms is human - speaking collectively we have workdays, we have good sleeps and bad sleeps, we drink and do drugs, we get grumpy and we get happy. Sometimes something minor makes someone pop off, sometimes something absolutely deserves it.
Building a community isn’t just setting a bunch of rules but it’s also building a culture, and for me this culture and having people in a community understand the above, that everyone there is human, is an integral part of being in a community. People popping off from time to time, arguing, having spats, these things are ok if the activity among people is still all in good faith. They’re just elements of people being human. Some of these negative events even lead to people coming back the next day and regretting some things they said, apologising, and deepening bonds with others over those negative outcomes. Sometimes that’s not the case too and that’s OK.
Your community will suffer immeasurably more damage from the people attempting to harm it, who are acting very much in bad faith, compared to the people that might be a bit rude from time to time but in good faith. A community can’t be built on mechanical factors alone, it has to be built on the interpersonal relationships of its userbase.
If I were going to recommend any particular course of action it would be to tighten the bonds of the community itself around the obvious task that needs to be carried out which is an anti-wrecker campaign. Hexbear carries out these kinds of posts alongside anti-wrecker memes and the like regularly to maintain a community that is well-versed and capable of instantly recognising wrecker shit and dunking on it quickly.
One of the primary things the wreckers want to do is play on your inability to spot them, and this goes 100x for community members who are not privvy to the longterm moderator issues at the backend. These issues won’t get smaller, they will get larger with growth and your instance will need to figure out things like what kind of culture it wants its community to have and how aspects of that culture are important elements of preventing longterm issues.
While you’re at it, can you delist wolfballs? 1 click on the site reveals anti trans content. The images are obviously a bit offensive, as some of them are just plain bad, so I’m pretty sure you’ll see them! 2 click on the site offers a couple more examples.
Lemmy.ml has blocked and defederated from Wolfballs ages ago. You can verify who we block by going to Lemmy.ml and clicking on “Instances” at the bottom of the page. I don’t like the fact that it’s still listed on join-lemmy.org, but I’m not a maintainer of that site.
I can but that seems like putting this specific person on blast, which is not my goal. If not this person it would be someone else because this is what tone policing rules cause. As the site grows more team members will be required and more team members will interpret (and reinterpret) tone policing rules on top of contributing to discourse that expands and compounds upon the problems that they cause. The end result is as I said before - these rules have a liberalising effect. Whether it happens in the short term or whether it happens in the longterm organisationally, they’re a negative.
Certain specific things end up going on wild unexpected tangents with these social media platforms when interpreted by teams. I recall when reddit completely destroyed the entire ecosystem that their platform had existed upon up to that point when they implemented the “no witchhunting” rule. This rule was intended to be a rule to stop people doing off-site witchhunts of people like the boston bomber or the lady that threw a cat in a wheeliebin because people get things very wrong in those witchhunts. Modteams however across the entire site re-interpreted the rule in a way that suppresses the ability of any userbase on reddit to raise the issue of a moderator abusing their powers on another subreddit. This completely collapsed reddit’s whole “just go make another subreddit” ideal that it was based on because you can’t just get an entire subreddit to move subreddits if no modteam will let you talk about the issue with another modteam because “witchhunting”. The effect of this rule was the longterm degeneration of the entire ecosystem reddit relied upon and I don’t even think a lot of reddit’s own admins realised what it did to the site.
Obviously that’s not directly relevant, just a tangential example of how different certain things can work out when teams interpret and re-interpret and re-interpret a concept multiple times down the line.
For me, tone policing rules in any form should always take the format of good faith vs bad faith participation. Let people speak how they speak, so long as the content of what they’re saying has merit and is being written in good faith. If however someone is participating in bad faith then slap them around a bit.
(Happy to share privately but again, this isn’t about the individual mod for me but about a rule that needs to be more carefully thought about with regard to its implementation)
You do raise some good points. Very thought provoking. I’ll definitely have to think on it and raise the issue with the other admins.
The main issue here is ultimately how to let people speak the way they might speak in any environment, that includes if they’re in the pub and some dickhead deserves to be called a dickhead from time to time. The leeway to allow that is useful in generating a trust-based community. Another factor here is that is just happens from time to time. Everyone on these platforms is human - speaking collectively we have workdays, we have good sleeps and bad sleeps, we drink and do drugs, we get grumpy and we get happy. Sometimes something minor makes someone pop off, sometimes something absolutely deserves it.
Building a community isn’t just setting a bunch of rules but it’s also building a culture, and for me this culture and having people in a community understand the above, that everyone there is human, is an integral part of being in a community. People popping off from time to time, arguing, having spats, these things are ok if the activity among people is still all in good faith. They’re just elements of people being human. Some of these negative events even lead to people coming back the next day and regretting some things they said, apologising, and deepening bonds with others over those negative outcomes. Sometimes that’s not the case too and that’s OK.
Your community will suffer immeasurably more damage from the people attempting to harm it, who are acting very much in bad faith, compared to the people that might be a bit rude from time to time but in good faith. A community can’t be built on mechanical factors alone, it has to be built on the interpersonal relationships of its userbase.
If I were going to recommend any particular course of action it would be to tighten the bonds of the community itself around the obvious task that needs to be carried out which is an anti-wrecker campaign. Hexbear carries out these kinds of posts alongside anti-wrecker memes and the like regularly to maintain a community that is well-versed and capable of instantly recognising wrecker shit and dunking on it quickly.
One of the primary things the wreckers want to do is play on your inability to spot them, and this goes 100x for community members who are not privvy to the longterm moderator issues at the backend. These issues won’t get smaller, they will get larger with growth and your instance will need to figure out things like what kind of culture it wants its community to have and how aspects of that culture are important elements of preventing longterm issues.
Pretty interesting analysis. Thanks!
While you’re at it, can you delist wolfballs? 1 click on the site reveals anti trans content. The images are obviously a bit offensive, as some of them are just plain bad, so I’m pretty sure you’ll see them! 2 click on the site offers a couple more examples.
Lemmy.ml has blocked and defederated from Wolfballs ages ago. You can verify who we block by going to Lemmy.ml and clicking on “Instances” at the bottom of the page. I don’t like the fact that it’s still listed on join-lemmy.org, but I’m not a maintainer of that site.
Who does maintain Join-Lemmy.org?
I think Dessalines and Nutomic
What is the plan with https://lemmy.ml/c/taiwan?
Not a fan personally, but don’t have the authority to remove it or anything like that.