Please upvote the post so others can see it and give their thoughts o7

If you think this post is dorky, theres a comment you can upbear to tell me how dorky and bad you think my post is, but still upvote the post for visibility knifecat


I think our posting is too powerful, simply by posting as we always would, or even at a lower intensity, we overwhelm people with replies to the point that can feel like a coordinated dogpile.

I think we should be conscious not to reply *if another hexbear has already said basically what you were going to"

I don’t wanna see a lib take, and then scroll down to see the same 3 lines 10 times that I knew would be there before I looked like we’re redditors

Now, if theres a Nazi I expect to see a thousand “fuck off and die nazi scum”, but if its a liberal giving a lukewarm liberal take, we should consciously not pile on. And if you just have to add something, take a second to make it digestible for other instances, if you’re not posting on Hexbear.

This isn’t a tone policing thing, I’m not wagging my finger at you for being rude, I just think its simply unwise to proceed as we have been, tactically. We will alienate people we don’t need to, for example any left-leaning liberal who happens to be neurodivergent and say something libbish, we’re just absolutely annihilating them.

I also think its important to tone down the PPB, for everyone not in hexbear, seeing a PPB should be like seeing officer-down , announcing the fall of a nazi or fucko. People should see it and smile and say “ahh, they got another one” not “oh these fuckin people”

TLDR: If its been said don’t say it again, if you’re gonna say it, make sure its understandable and proportionate.

Thoughts?

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    Please, don’t post less. I think it’s important that people start to perceive “actual communists” as something not frInge, and one of the “metrics” for something to be perceived as not fringe is how widespread it is. I’m not even from Hexbear, but I’ve already started to see libs having more trouble to impose their unfactual crap when there’s many more people to counteract with good info.

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      Liberals going from spewing their bullshit amongst themselves to having to contend with people with functioning frontal lobes is like the US military going from bombing weddings and hospitals to fighting a near peer war

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        Precisely, and quantity also matters when it comes to having a stronger discourse: It’s much easier for 10 libs to dogpile on 1 comrade, than 10 libs to dogpile on 10 comrades.

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    I think counteracting our “dont lurk, post” culture will be hard. Ive definitly tried to focus on posts that havent been replied to yet though.

    That said, i think the libs on other instances will tend to object to our content regardless of our volume.

    Agreed on ppb tho

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      the libs on other instances will tend to object to our content regardless

      The libs will object no matter what, its a matter of self preservation to them so of course they will but that doesn’t mean we have to make it easy on them, or hard on comrades and comrade adjacent folks who will be caught in the crossfire, right?

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    The “reputation” of Hexbear is entirely determined by your political stance. We’re going to be authoritarian tankies no matter how nice or mean we are.

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      Counter Point: Avoiding dog-piling people who aren’t actually nazis is neurodivergence inclusion. You can’t know who you could hurt without realizing, its not like we walk around wearing signs, so best to avoid stuff that could for no reason right? Along the same lines as not using slurs.

      One of the most wonderful parts of Hexbear for me is if I start to panic and feel cornered and need an interaction to end, I can just say disengage and its /OVER/ no questions asked, I don’t have to explain while having a panic attack why I should be allowed to be left alone, for example. Its not that that happens very often, I don’t think it’s happened on this account, but knowing that If I needed it I could is very comforting, its one of the reasons I feel safe here.

      Im kinda drunk now so this my be a tangent idk lmaooo o7

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    Yeah, dunking only comes out later if they start being racist or queerphobic or bloodthirsty,

    If they come into our instance though it’s hexbear-shining time

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    I don’t know, getting people to post less might backfire in that having high activity is what makes Hexbear fun to use. I understand that you’re asking for people to post less specifically elsewhere in the Lemmyverse, but I have a feeling that if you really succeeded in getting people to post less, that would probably bleed over into a general tendency to post less, which would be bad for the site. But maybe I’m just fear mongering and it wouldn’t effect the overall site culture. Idk, like everyone else, I really like our little site and the culture that we have, and it’s going to be interesting how federation is going to change it. Hopefully for the best! New users certainly help with the longevity of the project.

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    I think a lot of people have been posting with an immediate assumption that their interlocutors are hopeless or acting in bad faith. Escalation is not always correct and it can be pretty stinky.

    It’s good to have a reputation of relentlessly speaking for truth and your values. It is not good to have a reputation for being assholes who treat everyone who isn’t on the same page as them as irredeemable or stupid.

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    Be more concious, yeah probably. Actually moderate or have informal rules, no. PPB sparingly, absolutely.

    My reasoning for push back on this (off the cuff, I welcome other ideas) is this:

    • We post. We don’t use downvotes (and basically by proxy upvotes even though they still exist here) because they’re too easily manipulated, especially by people not willing to stick their neck out and identify themselves. If we believe that people should voice their opinions and stand by them or be corrected, I don’t see how we square not doing that with the people who need to hear it most - here or in other instances.

    • None of us reliably give the best reply and different comrades have different strategies, backgrounds, views, approaches etc. I realise this is kind of covered by “if it’s been said, don’t say it again” but people are gonna disagree about exactly what’s been said, moreso what hasn’t and also things like emphasis. I agree that people should probably look at their own about-to-posts and think ‘does this add anything?’.

    • We’re a largely excluded, ignored, and villified community - not as Hexbear, but as people. Doubly so for comrades who don’t have the luxury of being able to blend in with the dominant racial/sexual/gender norms of where they live or the predominantly English-speaking internet. The fact that so many of us (a tiny fraction of a fraction in the scheme of things) have gathered together and refuse to be ignored or talked down to on this little corner of the internet is a beautiful thing. So I think whatever numbers we have should be displayed proudly, not curtailed or hidden.

    • People don’t read the entire threads. Espeicially not when they’re hundreds of comments. People should. I try to out of habit most of the time, but also if someone come into a thread and left dozens of replies all over it then they realistically should expect that multiplied in return. Most of the users from outside Hexbear I’ve seen get dozens or hundreds of response have done so because they post incessantly throughout a thread without ever (or before they withdraw to) responding earnestly to particular responses.

    I think climbing over each other for the sake of a dunk isn’t very productive. I think being the second, third, fourth person (or even the first if you’re just trying to get it in before others) to post PPB is boring.

    My favourite parts of this site, where I spend most of my time here, are not the ones focused on memes or shitposting for a reason. But I also think trying to artificially change the culture of what we have here to be more approachable to a tiny percentage, of a tiny platform, which is a tiny proportion of a type of social media, on a small part of the internet isn’t worth it. Especially if we lose some of the imperfect but organic vibe we’ve created here over three years.

    But honestly, maybe thats because, for all the genuine, lovely impacts this place has on its users lives, it’s still mostly a place that’s just less shit than other bits of the internet for me. I took out a bunch of opposition football fans tonight and bought two rounds of drinks, which resulted in almost £300 in donations to our local socialist clothes/foodbank, a shitload of positive social media, and maybe an offshoot starting another town. I don’t say that to brag our sound holier than anyone, but for me I’ll do more good buying beers never mind actually organising offline than I ever will here. It doesn’t mean that what we do here doesn’t matter, I just think we can overfixate - sometimes in the extreme.

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    I think spamming people with ppb or our numerous excellent emojis doesn’t help Hexbear’s reputation or the Lemmy Fediverse more broadly since it gives people just cause to defederate when we are essentially spamming them (EVEN IF IT IS DESERVED). It’s just low effort posting. It’s more like an inside joke. It’s funny here, but it doesn’t really work “outside” the group, so to speak.

    I’m rather opposed to Hexbear users’ behavior on other comms, especially for the following reason: most people read posts and threads without ever posting themselves. So if we want to argue a point, we really do need to do it in a way that informs a reader, even if that reader isn’t the person being responded to. Hopefully the reader, even if they weren’t posting, will come away with a better understanding of this hellworld we’re in. Being a leftist ideally means you perceive a bit through the propaganda filter that we are all subjected to. It hopefully doesn’t mean being boorish online toward others. Also, many of us came into our leftists beliefs gradually and over time. Others deserve the same chance.

    If someone really wants to dunk on something, it can just be a screenshot of someone being shitty in c/the_dunk_tank. If someone in another prominent instance/comm is being extremely shitty (racist/transphobic/misogynist), ppb on sight with extreme prejudice. However, if someone is trying to converse something with bad, propagandized talking points, then just dismantle the points.

    My 2c

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    I don’t really think y’all should post less. I will say that having the hexbearistines in a thread makes it a little harder to really lure a lib into clicking on a funny link, but I like having y’all around.

    I think the Hexbear dominance is already dying down a bit in my “all” feed, now that we’ve been federated for a bit.

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    Agree on more strategic, limited use of PPB, but otherwise I disagree with posting less. Let the liberals enjoy being dogpiled by us pinkos like they dogpile people on shitholes like reddit.