• butter@midwest.social
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    10 days ago

    When someone does this to me, I promise, I don’t care how late I am, you’re getting 10 mph under the limit.

    Try to pass, I’ll show you 10 over for that duration.

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      10 days ago

      I instead use cruise control at the speed limit and drop one mph every so often

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        10 days ago

        I can confirm this drives the one behind you crazy.

        The other day I drove behind someone that did like that, first they lowered the speed for a few minutes then they passed a speed limit sign and increased the speed.

        I ended up trying to match their lowest speed and giving them plenty of space.

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        10 days ago

        Because Fuck them?

        Why not just give the bully your lunch money so they don’t beat you up?

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          but you’re intentionally blinding yourself at that point

          it’s not like they’re going to have any idea what they’re doing wrong

          plus if they get in front of you, you can flash your lights at them so they at least have some idea of the issue at hand

          or i guess it’s harder to deal with your childhood baggage than to act like an adult and safely operate a two ton hunk of steel at breakneck speeds

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            Yeah I don’t understand this reaction at all. I drive a little hatchback, and when I’m out on the open road just me and the friendly neighborhood tailgating pickup, I want them to be literally anywhere else but behind me ASAP. Usually I’ll drive slower and slower until they pass me, and I’m relieved when they do. In the infuriating situations where that doesn’t work, I say fuck it, drop a gear, and speed for a couple miles to create some distance.

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            8 days ago

            Retaliating is not worse than being being a dick?

            Are you stupid?

            If someone is bullying you, you’re not in the wrong for standing up for yourself.

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      10 days ago

      When a car is following another there is a safe speed for the distance between the cars. If the person in back can’t maintain the proper distance, it is the person in fronts responsibility to maintain the proper speed.

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        So they can force me to drive as fast as they want? I don’t think that’s how law works…?

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        What a baffling comment. Driving at a slower speed would give the person behind you more time to react, which they need because they’re riding your ass regardless of your speed.

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          I think thats what they’re saying though, or at least thats what I got from their comment. There’s a safe speed for the distance between cars, and as the car behind you gets closer, that safe speed goes down quick.

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        I think a lot of people down voting this need to read it again. They’re not saying you should go faster because someone is close behind, they’re saying go slower.

        If they’re 5m behind you, the safe speed is 20. If they’re 2m behind you the safe speed is 10. (Numbers pulled out of my hat).

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          10 days ago

          It is also the law here that it’s the follower’s responsibility to maintain proper following distance. But if they’re not going to keep you safe, you slow down to make sure you’re both safer with their choice in follow distance.

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            10 days ago

            I need a rear-mounted radar sensor and a display to make this work properly. Something that says something like, “current traveling speed: X, current following distance: Y, safe following distance at speed X: Z. Lowering speed to comply with safe following distance.”

            I want them to know exactly why I am slowing down.

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        10 days ago

        It might be worth a clarifying edit.

        It’s the following drivers responsibility to maintain enough distance.

        IF they don’t do that THEN it falls on you to do it for them (by slowing both of you down appropriately).

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        10 days ago

        why would you go for that when you could just stop as far to the side of the road as possible and tell them to go around you? let them get in front of you so they can merrily drive into a tree at 500mph while you keep yourself safe.

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          10 days ago

          That’s close to what he’s saying. Slow the fuck down until either the distance is safe, they back off, or overtake.