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  • EstraDoll [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    6 hours ago

    Like they know you are trans and do it intentionally?

    idk if they’re doing it intentionally or not, but I do my best and it’s usually men who either don’t pick up or do and don’t gender me right anyway

    there are more than a few instances where I can tell I get the very funny look at my nametag, they read my very femme name, and give me a “sir” anyway, but ultimately I can’t know for sure with everyone whether they’re being oblivious or a dick