• yesman@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Y’all ever notice how much male sexuality is performative for the benefit of other men? I’m not saying that they’re gay, they just seem more motivated by peer approval and status than touching a girl.

    I recently saw an interview with a stripper who said that the dudes who wanted attention from the girls used $100 bills and were discrete, while the dudes who tossed 100 $1 bills were more interested in the attention of their buddies.

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      16 hours ago

      Another interesting thing, in that same vein, is asexual or lesbian women that just go along with being in heterosexual relationships with men because it’s ‘normal’ or convenient.

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        20 hours ago

        The guy is right though. Testosterone peaks as a result of social circumstances.

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      2 days ago

      There’s a weird thing with “conquest”, pulling the ladies, and being somewhat deviant that’s tied to manliness and straightness for some reason.

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      2 days ago

      “Hurr durr, everyone I don’t like is a closet homosexual.”