Most of us are assholes to someone in some way.

Anyway, what you and mods value are different so it might seem petty and petulant, but it’s really more a matter of importance.

You don’t think what you say is important enough to warrant a ban, the mods disagree. And because they’re mods, their opinion matters more than yours which is why it feels unfair. It’s not. You’d act the same way on matters of importance to you in the same position.