Remember, EM POC only!

This message is to my EM POC comrades: Angel loves all of you.

Especially as of late, I have truly been feeling like this community has worked wonders in keeping me stable when it comes to handling the massive jar of mayo that this site can be sometimes.

soviet-heart

How are you all?

  • RomCom1989 [he/him, any]@hexbear.net
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    1 month ago

    Ummm,I honestly thought we weren’t allowed here lmao

    I’m kinda replying here because I am only surprised to see this

    That’s why I usually avoid this comm,btw if the anti-cracker-aktion rule applies to us too, please remove this comment

    • Belly_Beanis [he/him]@hexbear.net
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      1 month ago

      It is the “ethnic minorities” comm. Eastern Europeans may not experience colorism and whatnot, but they are often excluded from whiteness.

      Again, this just shows how arbitrary whiteness is. It’s not about defining specifics. It’s about excluding the other.

      IMO Eastern Europeans probably fit the comm so long as they don’t try and pull the ladder up behind them. But it is ultimately up to the mods and I’m half cracker so I could be out of line.

      Also, are there any Roma/travelers here on Hexbear? I don’t think I’ve seen them if there are.

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      1 month ago

      If I’m getting the sidebar right, then I think it would be different if I was living in my own country, but I’m in england and english people really don’t need much prompting to start acting like chuds. I definitely don’t get shit for my looks (unless it’s about me being trans) like a lot of people in this mega would, which is obv a huge privilege. But the moment I need to introduce myself with my name I can see the xenophobe gears turning in most ppl here >.> Finding a job sucks for the same reason

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          I honestly didn’t think there’d be many eastern europeans who came to this comm if only for the sheer number of eastern europeans regardless of country that I’ve known who felt comfortable with such virulent anti-Blackness that you’d think they were Tennessee natives; but it’s also not rly my call to make either

          • sweet_pecan [love/loves, they/them]@hexbear.netM
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            1 month ago

            Eastern Europeans who experience structural racism/targeted white supremacist violence are allowed. they are the EM part of em poc . they still gotta be mindful of their privilege though, and not talk over poc, or they will be banned with prejudice.

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            1 month ago

            Yeah this is very real. I’ve met many eastern europeans in the ukkk who are very quick to use their whiteness to figuratively climb on top of the brown people around them. Or if there’s no systemic fuckery going on, they’re still happy to just say slurs to feel superior or something. I actually reached a stage where I promised myself I’m only making friends with other immigrants who I can gossip about brits with from this point on, which worked out great for me tbh.

            As for eastern europeans in their own countries… yea, it’s so shit. Great replacement nationalism galore.

            Personally I find this comm a breath of fresh air online; even when I take breaks from hexbear as a whole I still check this mega every few days

        • hexbee [she/her]@hexbear.net
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          1 month ago

          Thanks! Although I was talking more rhetorically, since I’m disabled and couldn’t possibly work a job. Not that that will stop the DWP from trying… Glad your family member was able to find somewhere good!

          In terms of racism, I’m glad you haven’t encountered too much trouble, but I do find that quite surprising. Maybe it really depends on where in england you are as well.

          When I was a kid I lived in a racial enclave of white brits in the countryside for a good few years, where I was 1 of maybe 3 ethnic minority people in the whole village. I have many unpleasant memories from that time, including a dude I didn’t know who asked for my name, and then started following me home because he was 100% sure that I was making it up for the sole purpose of fucking with him. Similarly, I know someone from SEA who went to uni in a beach town in the south, and they were assaulted on the street at one point by a stranger, amongst a slew of other perhaps less intense hate crimes (intense enough to fuck up their mental health tho). My partner has also been ejected from a company they worked at after standing up to a white woman who was harassing them. Not to mention the terf island of it all… Not a big fan of this place overall, always thinking of escape plans.

          Edit: & assuming you’re the same person as hexbear’s Neptium, it’s nice to see you back! I always appreciated your SEA headlines posts in the news mega

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              I am just saying personally, it could’ve been worse. Hell, some of my friends and family had slurs shouted at and overall disgusting and nasty behaviour like you mentioned.

              Riight I gotcha. Yeah I definitely haven’t seen the worst of it, but feel very aware of it because lots of people around me deal with it way worse, so I relate somewhat.

              50/50 sounds pretty good for britain tbf! Glad you’re avoiding the worst of it I suppose, but I know how hard it can be to be isolated as a disabled person, solidarity with you there. Thankfully I’ve managed to escape that village a while back now and much happier where I am right now.

    • sweet_pecan [love/loves, they/them]@hexbear.netM
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      yall are the EM in em poc, if you experience structural racism or your people have been pogromed/ ethnically cleansed and that shit still affects you this is a place for you. if your life experience is indistinguishable from the ethnic group at the top of the hierarchy in which you live this is not the space for you.

      also you must be mindful not to talk over poc!