• hesusingthespiritbomb@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    You are judging people today for things they had nothing to do with on the basis of their sex.

    Like how do you not see that as fucked up?

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      1 year ago

      You think Im judging all men but I’m only judging men who spread PUA bullshit, which they have responsibility for. Sorry you can’t get it.

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            1 year ago

            I’m 28.

            So you’re an honest to God adult judging people under the age of 25 for things they not only had no part in, but were largely perpetuated by people who are most likely dead?

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              1 year ago

              I’m an honest to god old women on the internet who has been in tech spaces since the 90s, so I have seen (and felt) the impact of these ideologies very personally, and yes I hold people over the age of 18 responsible for their own actions. If they believe in PUA bullshit then yes I judge them for it. Are you shocked?

              Either you’re adults or you’re not. I can’t afford to coddle these young men anymore, it’s damaging to me and all women - and coddling them hasn’t helped. And the people perpetuating the things aren’t dead, they’re passing the baton - to these ‘young men’.

              Wake the fuck up to the fact that like, 100 rich guys are essentially slowly enslaving most of humanity, and THAT is your problem, and stop attacking women. We’re running out of time and I’m out of patience.

              Thanks for coming to my ted talk.

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                  1 year ago

                  he can understand that I dislike misogynists, not men

                  how does your mom feel about you minimizing women’s problems on the internet and claiming that you know the truth about locker room talk to invalidate their lived experiences?