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  • 🎀 Seryph (She/Her)@lemmygrad.ml
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    4 months ago
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    Blunt was perfect. Honestly it always is for me, I have a habit of brooding and getting a blunt reply usually helps me recontextualise it and see a bit clearer to stop brooding.

    Yeah, I know it’s quite common, and if someone else was hurting in this way I’d have probably said the same as you, that staying in the relationship just hurts them more. But I also recognise that I can’t cut him off yet, I’m not really ready for it at all. And I guess part of me hopes that since he’s not as transphobic that maybe he’ll actually try to change later, but I know that won’t happen.

    A lot of my friends do. Honestly if I went in full detail you’d hate them even more.

    Pfffft. Okay I know you probably didn’t mean this specifically, but I can’t help but read ‘do something cool dad’ as lenin shotgun

    I wish I could but he has a letter to give me that got sent to their place since I still don’t have a real permanent address. And it’s for my loan, so I do kind of have to. Plus I was going to need to do groceries that day anyways. Sunday Sery will be a very grumpy and eepy girl though. I’ll try to use your suggestion sometime in the future though, I do think it would help.

    Thank you, I am at this point. Still a bit emotionally volatile, but not nearly as much as I was last night when I was ugly crying.

    • ashinadash [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
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      4 months ago
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      Oh cool, this is good news cause I’m best at being blunt and not much else badeline-heh

      I mean I think that’s fair, hope does spring eternal, and deciding “I don’t have parents anymore” is not a small flippant decision for most people, I’m just ridiculous. at that point it’s a clash between readiness to let go and the pain it causes you keeping in touch, I guess. Just sorry your family is like this…

      I’m very used to hating people’s parents to death, so that doesn’t surprise me normal If I had 100 yen for every time I have said to someone “god I fuckin hate your parents they don’t deserve you” etc, lol

      I mean hey if dad wants to do a little kind-vladimir-ilyich as a treat, that’d be one way to redeem himself I guess :^)

      Oh shit, yeah that fuckin sucks. Need some kind of PO box or something, it’s shit having stuff get sent to the address of people you hate. Could be worth calling whatever loan place and asking them not to mail there at least? I know how that is though, pretty sure I still have random mail going to my mother sometimes. I hope this type of thing goes better in the future for you cat-trans

      Good, glad to hear it!!! meow-hug and best of luck with the rest of this week & weekend y’know.