sadness

  • FunkyStuff [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    5 months ago

    There’s a pretty big difference between having an argument with someone because of a difference in opinion or interests, and having hatred for that person. I guess there’s a lot of overlap as people mature and grow old with their close partners it’s inevitable that negative emotions set in alongside love. But it’s definitely different to just arguing, and it’s probably not healthy to hate your partner.

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        5 months ago

        Yeah I think so. Personally I’ve never even felt hatred for anyone in my personal life, it’s a whole different thing as opposed to just having differences with people IMO.

    • Frank [he/him, he/him]@hexbear.net
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      5 months ago

      You can argue and disagree without fighting, without trying to hurt the other person or to “win”. But to do that, you’ve got to trust them a whole lot, and they’ve got to trust you just as much.