• Eleanor@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 year ago

    I do, I’ve been using HER and it’s been going okay overall.

    It’s specifically designed for lesbian and non-binary dating which makes a big difference imo. It’s also openly trans-positive and anti-terf which is pretty essential for me as a trans woman.

    As for my personal experience, I’ve had a few good conversations and one short relationship so far.

    Still, people often ghost for no apparent reason just like any other dating app. It’s hard not to feel inadequate after a while :(

    • Triasha-she/her@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      1 year ago

      It is hard. Sometimes you can remind yourself that it doesn’t reflect on you as a person, it’s them.

      Other times you have to take a break and let your ego recover.

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      1 year ago

      Hey, it’s not your fault if people ghost you. Dating apps are hard, I think the best is to do dating apps with also irl meeting, like in cafe or things like that. You maximise your chance this way :)

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        1 year ago

        My GF and I were aligned in that we were both not interested in getting to know someone too much virtually without being willing to meet in person. I think it really helps to set expectations early on, and either they share those expectations or they don’t.