• Asafum@feddit.nl
    146·
    10 months ago

    Oh man I need to go there!

    …for the peace and calm.

    …and maybe actually feel attractive lol

      • Asafum@feddit.nl
        8·
        10 months ago

        I don’t even have a dad bod! I’ve actually heard women say they prefer someone with a dad bod when I spent time on dating sites lol

        I’m just whiter than white bread, short, hairy in all the wrong places and not at all in the right ones, and as for my face I’ll just say I’m pretty aesthetically challenged lol

    • AA5B@lemmy.world
      3·
      10 months ago

      The stereotypes may be those places but it’s certainly not limited to them. A bunch of years back I was touring Indonesia and somehow ended up with some way too young girls. We noped out of that as quickly as we could find our driver, but I was freaked out for weeks after. I don’t see how anyone is comfortable with that situation

      Still tipped the driver though, for taking us around all day. I don’t know if he misunderstood going to a club, or the club jumped right to the stereotype

    • astreus
      39·
      10 months ago

      You do see how your last statement is not okay and plays into racial fetishism, right?

      • Asafum@feddit.nl
        5·
        10 months ago

        If it wasn’t a joke yeah I see that, but I was just using it as an opportunity to make fun of myself lol

        But also, it would be them fetishizing me which I’m not against being as ugly as I am lol

        • astreus
          22·
          10 months ago

          Gotcha! Though because it’s fetishism due to internalised racism spread over the centuries that means “white is right” it’s not okay to exploit!