I am very comftable with he/him pronouns. Always was but recently I noticed that while I don’t go out of my way to use them I’m also fine with they/them pronouns being used on me.

It could be a phase but I’m not sure. It could also be that I tend to use they/them as an alternative in. I’m confused

  • vis4valentine
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    1 年前

    That is Ok, sounds like ur cis with some aesthetic preferences and that’s ok. You can try out they/them with some friends and you can see if it sticks with you. Plenty of cis guys have their ears pierced, wear bracelets, have nair polish, dye their air, use eyeliner, etc. Feel free to experiment with out appearance in a way that makes you feel comfortable. Best of luck.

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        1 年前

        It’s ok. It might take a while until you fully realize ur identity, it’s kind of a painful thing but you always become confident after trying out and finding out how you really feel. Enjoy the journey haha.

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          Good luck. I probably an cis, might not be. I heard of the label demiboy that kicked off this crisis but that’s probably overreaction

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            That’s ok. Labels are a way to help us define ourselves and understand ourselves. You don’t need to strictly fit into a certain label to identify as yourself in a certain way. When I started questioning, I said I was “cisn’t” until I found out my identity. Take your time and let it rest in your head.

            Here you have some useful resources in the Gender Disphoria Bible.