I am very comftable with he/him pronouns. Always was but recently I noticed that while I don’t go out of my way to use them I’m also fine with they/them pronouns being used on me.

It could be a phase but I’m not sure. It could also be that I tend to use they/them as an alternative in. I’m confused

    • vis4valentine
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      1 year ago

      It’s ok. It might take a while until you fully realize ur identity, it’s kind of a painful thing but you always become confident after trying out and finding out how you really feel. Enjoy the journey haha.

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        1 year ago

        Good luck. I probably an cis, might not be. I heard of the label demiboy that kicked off this crisis but that’s probably overreaction

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          That’s ok. Labels are a way to help us define ourselves and understand ourselves. You don’t need to strictly fit into a certain label to identify as yourself in a certain way. When I started questioning, I said I was “cisn’t” until I found out my identity. Take your time and let it rest in your head.

          Here you have some useful resources in the Gender Disphoria Bible.