• Judge_Jury [comrade/them, he/him]@hexbear.net
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      1 year ago

      I was trying to become socially a good person for friends, to become socially favourable towards girls

      Those are one and the same thing. Women aren’t some other kind of beast that you have to learn about, they’re just people that you need to unlearn some distinctions about if you ever want to connect with them. Same goes for men.

      When I hear another man talk about men being chimps when chasing women, I hear excuses for stereotypical and often violent behavior

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      1 year ago

      I was trying to become socially a good person for friends

      And you failed.

      to become socially favourable towards girls

      And you failed.

      since I was a whacko with borderline (not fully) redpill beliefs

      Those never went away.

      aka not giving a F about her

      Your self-congratulatory apathy toward other people is self-defeating and the reason you continue to fail. congratulations

      Does that sound like lobster boy’s 12 rules and other evangelist Christian preaching to you?

      There is no functional difference. If you came up with that shit all by yourself you’re just working extra hard when that garbage is already there for the taking.

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          Thanks for judging me and my alleged personality failures

          You are voluntarily continuing to sabotage your own well being with your ruinous beliefs. Passive-aggressive sarcastic statements don’t protect you from that and they even fail your own standards of “self improvement” unless sulking and pouting is part of your manliness regimen.

          when you know nothing about me beyond what I type on internet

          This isn’t 2003. The internet’s been around long enough for that 4chan lie about how the nazis on 4chan were only ironic nazis has ceased to be convincing. People more often than not are what they present themselves as on the internet and the mask of anonymity just makes people like you show us what you really are beneath offline social expectations.

          I am enlightened and will soon reach divinity by your holy life crippling blessings.

          Again, your passive-aggressive sarcastic sulking is not doing anything for you here.