I am talking to people on this dating app, hinge, and this idea has popped up several times. And while I think I get it I’m not sure exactly what they mean. Of course, everyone has their own interpretation of what they think they mean by it, but I was wondering if you all had anything you wanted to add to it.
Is it being open to being vulnerable with each other?
I found this and I thought it was pretty good actually…
That is valid. A friend of mine told me that you should “treat emotionally unavailable people like you treat cats: be friendly and loving when your paths cross but give them all the space they need.”
Definitely. That’s a very good way to look at it.