• Diva (she/her)
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    2 hours ago

    hi, I use she/her, unless you’re also doing the thing where you intentionally misgender me because I disagree with you

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      51 minutes ago

      Do I strike you as a person that would do that?

      I can i imagine it happening commonly in the instance you picked as your base, though.

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        33 minutes ago

        I can i imagine it happening commonly in the instance you picked, though.

        That’s the problem, you can imagine lots of things with no basis in reality. I’ve been explicitly misgendered by one other .worlder n this exact thread, explicitly as retaliation. Never run into that on ml- credit the mods for removing that, and then it’s weird to be getting told it’s happening from my domain right after that

        Like to be clear - I have issues with the admins on ml, if I’m recommending trans people I know to make accounts it’s not going to be my first recommendation, but it’s also not going to be any of the other lemmies either. This kind of behavior is just too rampant and poorly controlled

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          Wait, so it happened once and you jump to my throat as if it happens all the time on here?

          I mean, even one time is obviously too often, but assuming I would do it deliberately when it only happened one time before is a bit unfair, don’t you think?

          Especially when you argue that I shouldn’t imagine ml, an instance I watch every time I’m here.