Old grumpy software architect and engineer. Handfasted, has kids and dogs. Knows about fine arts, music, rock climbing, and politics.

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  • Ænðr@lemmy.worldtoAutism@lemmy.worldThe Horror
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    1 year ago

    My coach at a former employer told me I couldn’t be an effective sales person because I think too long before speaking. Of course if I blurt out what I think, it’s going to be the truth, and marketers don’t like that very much. My clients do, though!

    But yes: I edit every text I write. I hate touch phones.



  • Ænðr@lemmy.worldtoAutism@lemmy.worldJust a rant
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    1 year ago

    I hear you. I’ve been called a “loner” and “different” my whole life. Sometimes people called me a “rebel” and a “troublemaker”. Turns out I’m autistic. Yay me.

    And society at large likes to play by rules made up and enforced by itself. Us autistic people aren’t included in those. And thus we wind up trying really hard to play by the rules, only to find out others don’t… and they don’t face any consequences.

    If the rules exist to keep me in check, but everyone else gets to roam free, it isn’t personal responsibility. Instead, it’s a failure of society at large to recognize us and accommodate us equally and fairly.

    And… that’s why I’m into politics.






  • Interesting read! Thank you for sharing.

    I´ve gained quite a bit of experience with the Java programming language, and very much agree with the accusation that its ecosystem is full of weird choices. Thank you, Mark Rheinhold, I guess. And because of those, other things that got made available got made weird too.

    Seeing these benchmarks helps a lot and is quite refreshing: over on Medium, many a content writer regurgitates the same old “tips” without ever providing any benchmarks as proof, thus causing us to believe in fairy tales or continuing traditions for tradition sake, rather than for the benefit of an application.

    Thank you for picking an article that includes benchmarks. That is worth repeating.