Ko'vari

I have wares if you have coin.

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  • Ko'variOPtoAsexual@lemmy.worldNarrator: there was no trauma
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    1 year ago

    Theres a sort of…umbrella of asexuality. The only true “requirement” for the definition is “little to no sexual attraction.” Meaning, someone who does not find an individual(s) to be a preferable partner to engage in sexual activities with – although, that is more across the board and not limited to an individual.

    It can seem complicated but I’ll try to simplify it a bit. Some asexuals do still have sex, and some do not. Some are whats called “sex positive” which is an asexual who does not experience sexual attraction, but will still engage in sexual activity for personal reasons. Others are what’s called “sex indifferent” which they don’t have strong feelings one way or the other. Some are “sex repulsed” which do not like the activity of sex or may otherwise be disgusted by the act.

    It’s important to remember that sexual attraction =/= sexual activity. Every ace is different as we are all individualistic humans with our own preferences, but the main defining fact is, again, someone who experiences very little to no sexual attraction at all.

    And onto the meme… a lot of us are told that we are only ace because we had TraUMa which is completely untrue.






  • Me too!!! Oh. I have SO many :) is there a /r/gothplants community yet? Ugh. Yours is so beautiful and looks so well cared for! See, everyone should have one. Lol

    I’ve got so much admiration for black foliage, I’ve been dying to get my hands on a voodoo lily and nepenthes hamata to complete my goth plant collection, but sadly suppliers are hard to find in my area… but I did find an edithcolea grandis, I can’t wait to post about that one :)