• NounsAndWords@lemmy.world
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      11 months ago

      Yes. This type of dismissive response is the other reason I shouldn’t talk about my struggles to begin with. Thank you for the direct example.

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        11 months ago

        I hear ya. Don’t pack it down or bottle it up. This isn’t that other place, and you can tell the punters to STFU. Your struggles are valid and your stresses are worthy of solutions. Feel free to bend my ear, and I’m sure others here are able to be helpful as well. You’re not alone, neighbor. 🤗✊🏼

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          11 months ago

          And yet you replied directly to them. The fact that you used their comment as a platform for your rant makes it worse, not better.

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              11 months ago

              No, I know why you did it. I saw your other comments. I’m not asking why, im explaining that your comment was dimissive, rude, and very much using a person who was venting about their stress in life.

              Not for them, obviously.

              You do understand that makes it worse, right?

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      11 months ago

      So your advice to them is to kill off their kids? Or to invent a time machine and go back to erase them form existence?

      What a pointless and arrogant reply…

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      11 months ago

      /r/ChildFree is leaking.

      Can we at least keep the toxic dismissive, high horse bullshit on reddit and not bring it to lemmy?

      It’d be nice if conversation quality wasn’t bottom barrel like the above comment.