• jol@discuss.tchncs.de
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    11 months ago

    Real talk homies. How desperate would you as a straight man have to be to use a glory hole, knowing probably a man would be doing the sucking?

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      11 months ago

      As a straight man, I think I’d have to be pretty desperate. But in any case, I’d first talk about it with my straight husband.

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      11 months ago

      I’m not concerned about whether it’s a guy or a girl sucking at a gloryhole, but I’m concerned about what STIs a gloryhole sucker might bring

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      11 months ago

      This is totally typical. You know why?

      1 - It’s easy to show up and get serviced, no sweat. 2 - Gay dudes give the bests blowjobs. 🧑🏼 3 - And… 'Cause the “straight male” actually enjoy doing it…

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        11 months ago

        He could have been more sensitive but there is nothing homophobic about just being straight. He didn’t make any judgements about gay people, or any other disenfranchised group. His judgement/curiosity is towards straight males.

        If you are bi curious and want to go to a glory hole and get excited about not knowing who is doing the service then guess what? You’re a beautiful person but you aren’t straight. So his question had nothing to do with you.

        His question was for someone who has the same sexuality as him. It seems like he feels a specific way about something that comes from his sexuality and is wondering what the circumstances would be to make someone else that feels just like him about it to actually go through with it.

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        11 months ago

        While it’s not directly referring to the joke, I don’t think the question implies he missed it. Just a question that popped up because of the topic in said joke

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      11 months ago

      I’d would have to lose the use of both my arms first and then who knows what might end up happening.

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      11 months ago

      Probably not the best subr… SubLemmy(?) to ask this question. It’s important right now to be sensitive for our disenfranchised homies.

      Without looking at your previous posts I’m giving the benefit of the doubt that you didn’t mean anything negative by it. So hear me when I tell you that saying things that could even just “possibly” be misinterpreted as something negative will absolutely be taken personally. The past hundred+ years have been completely fucking horrendous for gay people, so until we go back to freely fucking and sucking anyone without judgement, the people who are used to being oppressed for said fucking and sucking are going to be a little sensitive when you say something that might be misinterpreted into you thinking they should be oppressed.