Cromalin [she/her]@hexbear.netM to traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.netEnglish · 1 year agoi only have 6 of the 7hexbear.netimagemessage-square34fedilinkarrow-up1114arrow-down10file-text
arrow-up1114arrow-down1imagei only have 6 of the 7hexbear.netCromalin [she/her]@hexbear.netM to traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.netEnglish · 1 year agomessage-square34fedilinkfile-text
minus-squarediegeticscream[all]🔻@lemmygrad.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up25arrow-down1·1 year agoEven if you’re not using it as a gendered term, it is a gendered term, and it can make people who don’t identify that way feel bad. It doesn’t seem worthwhile to use “dude” for everyone with that in mind.
minus-square🏳️⚧️ 新星 [she/they]@lemmygrad.mllinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·1 year agoAgreed. I imagine it can be dysphoria inducing for trans women, even if it is more gender neutral in your area.
minus-squareTheCaconym [any]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up8·1 year agoYou’ve got like ten people answering you kindly and you decided to just double down, eh ? See you back when you’ve done some thinking
minus-squareCromalin [she/her]@hexbear.netOPMlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up5·1 year agoi don’t want to be too defensive of them but they did do that before most of the responses came in if you look at the timestamps
minus-squareTheCaconym [any]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·1 year agoTrue enough, I didn’t notice that.
Even if you’re not using it as a gendered term, it is a gendered term, and it can make people who don’t identify that way feel bad.
It doesn’t seem worthwhile to use “dude” for everyone with that in mind.
Agreed. I imagine it can be dysphoria inducing for trans women, even if it is more gender neutral in your area.
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You’ve got like ten people answering you kindly and you decided to just double down, eh ?
See you back when you’ve done some thinking
i don’t want to be too defensive of them but they did do that before most of the responses came in if you look at the timestamps
True enough, I didn’t notice that.