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Have any queer vibes to share? Here’s your place!
Talk about what’s happening queerly in your life - like coming out, getting HRT, questioning, and all that good stuff.
No cishets allowed!
Day n of questioning whether I’m ace
yeahh kinda same for me
nsfw talk
I think it’s very notable that when I’m looking at porn I tend to skip the sex parts lol, usually the leadup is so much more hot and a lot of the time the sex stuff is just kinda gross
i’ll probably start calling myself semiasexual or something because I definitely wanna get banged and have historically enjoyed sex just not in any normative way
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Honestly still hard to wrap my mind around the fact that people get enjoyment out of watching other people have sex. It kinda grosses me out, I think all the porn I’ve ever consumed is soft core I was 18 the first time I masturbated, believe it or not, which adds to my potential ace case.
I have only had penetrative sex once and really hated it. I had a sexual experience with a guy once too and hated it as well
My brain fucking sucks
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Yeah that’s super understandable honestly. Figuring out the sexuality is really annoying but I’m sure we’ll both get to a good point with it 😔
There’s ace ppl who have sex “just” because they like the feeling, or because they do it for their partner. In the end it comes down to the definition: asexuality is about not experiencing sexual attraction to people. are you sexually attracted to people? Or only when you’re good friends (demi), or only rarely (aceflux/grayace)? Or not at all (ace)? Or somewhere inbetween? Maybe I’m not saying something new, maybe this helps, and you can also tell me to delete this if I spoke out of turn