• trash80@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    8 months ago

    Dr. = Doctor. Mr. = Mister. Mrs. = Misses. There is also “Miss”, which has no period because it isn’t an abbreviation.

    Mx. = ?.

    Is “Mx.” an abbreviation? No? Why does it have a period? You pronounce it phonectically, though we do not do that with Dr. or Mr. or Mrs.?

    I don’t oppose the use of gender neutral language, but I don’t think the pronunciation of “Mx.” or the fact that it isn’t an abbreviation is obvious. It conforms to conventions in one way and departs from conventions in another.

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      8 months ago

      I pronounce it phonetically precisely because this is not an abbreviation of any word. But honestly I have no idea, this asking.

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      8 months ago

      ”Good morning, I am Mx. Vary, your science teacher." That’s it, that’s all you need for the entire year.

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        8 months ago

        Do your classes take place entirely over text? They’re asking how you pronounce that in speech.

        Mr. Is short for “Mister” Mrs is short for mistress, but is usually pronounced “Misses”

        So how does one pronounce Mx.? Mix or Mixter? Mixes? And sometimes Xs are pronounced like Z, so is it just Mmmz?

        Asking how to pronounce someone’s preferred pronouns is entirely reasonable when their preferred pronoun is not a regular part of the English language. I’d rather know how to say something and not offend someone than say it wrong for who knows how long and definitely offend them.

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          8 months ago

          If they’re saying it, they just told you how to pronounce it. That’s my point.

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            8 months ago

            Yeah, but I’m trying to learn for myself, and have never had anyone say it to me.

            So you’re not really helping by assuming I should know how to pronounce a new word

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              8 months ago

              Okay, but like, if you were in their class you would hear them say it to you and then you’d know.

              If you actually cared you’d just look it up tbh.